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Why Asian Guys Can’t Get White Girls
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Some students at UC San Diego made this 15 mins long video, explaining why asian guys really can’t get white girls. Its really hilarious and original. The first half maybe a bit boring but the second half is the funny part. 1 videoclip after the jump. |
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October 11th, 2008 at 10:30 am
statistics does not matter in this topic
October 11th, 2008 at 1:58 pm
I bet alot of white guys were happy for a second!..LOL….But this video has seriously made stereotypes worse for asian guys..Not to mention people starting to believe and think this is true.. Like some of you said stereotypes are all about dominance. In other words making the colored people look bad.. Its been happening throught history to different medias and mean… This is BS people. My brother and cousin are asian and their dating a white girl!…..Not me though I only prefer asian girls…..
October 11th, 2008 at 10:32 pm
Why are people tripping? You’re stupid if you took this video seriously and not as a joke
October 14th, 2008 at 7:26 pm
man i am neither asian,or white….i aint pitch black either,i am brown……
I was just curious if anyone could tell me where this leaves me ????
October 17th, 2008 at 1:11 pm
I do have a feeling that people above, acting like they’re all cool, bashing the video, taking it waaay too serious, don’t actually get laid that much. Guys, relax. It’s just a video, and if you watch it fully, it denies stereotypes in the end. And stop trying to act tough online, when you’re not. It just makes you look stupid.
October 19th, 2008 at 1:13 am
guys , girls are just like that .they dont like guys who r nerdy and boring .well as for me girls suck they are just apain in the ass . a real annoying beings.
October 19th, 2008 at 8:13 am
I’m old now.
There were Asian guys I would have gone out with in my life but they were so gentlemanly and self-contained and I was never sure how to approach them. I was friendly and went out of my way to talk to them and show the proper body language but they never took the bait.
I always assumed that they preferred gentle girls of their own respective tribes who could engage in elaborate subtle metaphorical language to get the point across, not straight-talking barbarianesses. How many Asian men would even date a white woman or would find one “not of their own” attractive? They don’t wear signs, after all, and you can’t just come out and say you prefer your own sort of person these days (not that there is anything wrong with it).
October 20th, 2008 at 1:33 pm
The study of stanford shows, interracial marriage between white male with asian female are more than asian male with female the ratio 3:1. In addition, naturally, women have choice to choose their mate, so being an asian guy is tough to get accept from white girl. I dont offend it or anything, mostly white girl they prefer white guy more than asian guy. However, it’s not true at all, that asian guys cant get any white girl, coz I used to have many gf such as Latina, white and asian. I don’t care what race they are, as long they are hot and sweet.
October 25th, 2008 at 11:18 am
ppl who takes this video seriously, i have a message for u!!! dont lose hope
October 25th, 2008 at 1:08 pm
What’s up with Ann? : 6/27/2008
I picture, a bleach blonde bimbo who dates guys that drive BMW’s and lives with mom. What environment are you in, where all these asian men are crawling all over you, and they all make you ill? I’m half asian, my mother’s japanese and dad was swedish,Irish and german. I’m fairly intelligent, athletic and was raised catholic and served as an alter boy and still a church goer. I’m in my mid 40’s now, happy and successful with my still gorgeous wife of 20 years. She’s educated, professional, involved in local politics and mom to my 2 boys. I played semi-pro football as a wide receiver until just a few years ago and could probably still compete. Yeah, I’ve got the caveman thing going on just like any other guy, sports cars, football, competition, beautiful women etc. I’m actually kind of laid back and except for a couple of times, never asked a girl out, I was the one being approached. I started dating my wife after she had asked me out on a date. I still get subliminal and direct interest from the opposite sex from women half my age in the workplace. Kind of flattered, but I’m very happy in my marriage. It’s unfortunate someone would have so much hate, anger and ignorance towards any race of man, for really no other reason than they throw themselves at her, because she’s self-proclaimed “good looking”. Maybe she had some bad chinese food or something or her toyota broke down. I think if these asian men would have talked with the bimbo first they would have changed their mind, after realizing they were talking to a “box of rocks”. If you were a guy and called me weak and pathetic to my face, I’d body slam you oh, there goes that caveman in me again. Ann, in 20 years when you’re even chubbier, botoxed out and still bleaching your hair, I’ll still be happy and look the same.
October 28th, 2008 at 10:51 pm
The saddest thing is that people take this thing so seriously. Everything in the video was a joke….and yeah some jokes do tend to go towards the racist side, but I think this was just an observation and a joke on the stereotypes. =.= Besides people who actually watched the whole thing can’t complain because they knew what it was going to be about in like the first….thirty seconds….or the title…or whatever else.
November 6th, 2008 at 5:20 am
Just remember this fools…. YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE.
Nothing can change that.
Forget about white women, just pay a hooker and get it over with. Thats my impute.
November 6th, 2008 at 8:54 am
As said before, this video is meant to be a joke
I didn’t read all the comments (of course) but I saw Ann’s comment and that is just not acceptable.. That’s the kind of person that makes white people look racist =/
I’m a white girl from sweden and I also love asian guys, as a lot of other girls.
(My last boyfriend was korean.)
Let’s face it, in reality I think asian guys don’t have any problems with getting girls of whatever color.
How many people doesn’t love Asia and asian people nowadays?
It’s all about what kind of looks you like.
I’m really into dark eyes, and dark hair, and I love the asian look.
It’s very cute
And I’ve discovered that asians seems to have nicer bodies most times
But anyway, I like people of all colors, not just asians of course.
It’s all in the looks and the personality
November 10th, 2008 at 12:11 pm
not true i am azn and i got a hot white girlfriend : )
November 12th, 2008 at 12:38 pm
haha that was awesome!
there is a similar video i watched b4 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kBFDxBBS_rQ
November 14th, 2008 at 11:51 am
it’s a funny vid, but… asian guys shouldn’t sell themselves short, even if it’s a joke. you’re just sending white guys on a power trip–and seriously, that’s the last thing they need. white guys are NOT attractive (speaking as a white chick here). who needs the arrogance, the ego, the lack of humour, the selfishness, the hairiness, the body odour, the snotty faux intellectual behaviour and that pasty white skin with all their screwed up dna?! NOT ME! i’m dating outside my race to get away from all that crap, and my preference is definitely asian. besides, i’ve only ever seen white guys with really FUGLY asian chicks, so there’s nothing to be jealous or insecure about, dudes.
November 15th, 2008 at 6:53 pm
well, look, I hope people don’t take this seriously, because the video is a hilarious joke, (a satire, even) and nothing more.
I think culture is the problem here. Many asian men grew up in strict families where contact with the opposite sex, be it white or asian, is restricted. This tends to churn out men who are rather shy around the girls. And as (i believe) girls find confidence a VERY desirable attribute, confident guys, (which tends to be white guys because of their more open upbringing) tend to be more attractive than nerdy asians.
But no matter, to all the shy asian guys out there, practise losing your inhibitions around girls and you’ll definite find someone you desire and deserve.
To all the girls out there, white or asian who want a nice, reliable, caring man, shy Asian guys actually have very good potentials. I’ve seen intellectual and physical powerhouses act like little boys around women. Talk to them, encourage them, (I know this is a bit pathetic but let’s face it, some of us out there NEED encouragement), and you’ll be surprised what comes out once the shell has cracked.
November 16th, 2008 at 10:50 pm
eeeh im eastern european girl and in my opinion asian guys are hotter then whites,expecially white americans!
November 16th, 2008 at 10:55 pm
ooh,and one more thing to ask….cause i was always wondering that…do asian guys like european girls?(sorry for my bad english)
November 17th, 2008 at 1:21 pm
I am a white and blonde girl and I only date asian guys. I think that they are the hottest guys alive and Chinese/Japanese/Korean guys with their perfect skin, sexy jet black hair and gorgeous eyes turn me on more than any one guy ever can. I AM SO IN LOVE WITH THEM. I love how they are not hairy and just effing flawless.
November 23rd, 2008 at 1:29 pm
I love this vid… it’s cute and harmless - people who said it’s racist are oversensitive douchebags… and by the way, i’m a white girl and I LOOOOOOOVVVEEE my chinese bf… he’s sexy, passionate, strong-willed and one of the smartest people I’ve ever met… and the hair thing is WRONG - i love his nice, smooth skin…
OH and the Bai Ren Kan Bu Dong shirt is hilarious… I want one!
asian men are yummmmmy!
smart white girls know that yellow is the way to go
December 10th, 2008 at 5:01 pm
Well, I’m an asian guy, but i really think that race doesn’t matter but the personality is the most important. IF girls (well, such as some brain-washed asian girls in america these days xD) ONLY look for physical traits, then oh well…so be it. They brainless but some day they would realized that looks doesn’t matter (which means they grew some brain cells in their heads xD). GIRLS usually are starting to be more mature when they are around the late 20s - 30s. Young girls might think that BIG GUYS are nice and all, but when they’ve become older, they would realize that physical traits aren’t really important. COME ON, THIS IS THE 21st CENTURY NOW. WE ARE NOT BACK IN THE OLD DAYS WHERE WE HAVE TO HUNT.
And to answer Iris’s question, YES asian guys LOVE european girls also. When they say “white girl” they would mean White/European girls, or even Latinas!! Well, at least I LOVE White/European and Latin girlies!!
You’re welcom to msg me at YouTube:
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December 13th, 2008 at 1:59 pm
Wow … I am an Asian and I go to SDSU. I really feel that white girls DO NOT give a crap about Asian guys. If there is one out there. I would like to meet you and shake your hand.
But again, no offense but I think that some white girls are REALLY conceited. Wouldnt date one if I had the chance, I mean I love there “physical” appearance. I go to school everything wishing I can be with one but the truth is personality matters the most. Well, my buddy who is an Asian went out with a white girl for a few months and at first we thought he is the man but after a few months they broke up because we are culturally so different.
Mine you we are not FOBS …
December 18th, 2008 at 9:55 am
I’m a white girl (half german/half italian)…and i prefer asian guys..i most likely wouldnt want to date any other race..they are adorible
January 1st, 2009 at 1:04 pm
I am Chinese who is a math graduate student now in the United States and has been here for like 18 months, I’m not as nerdy as some Chinese students can be and I am more open than other Chinese(not raised here) For some reason I was thrown in an off-campus apartment with undergrad kids when I first got here. It was a huge culture shock to me but I got myself involved into drinking and partying and all that stuff. During that time I dated a redhair chick, she was not gorgeous but still okay looking. It was the first time I have ever dated a white girl, we broke up because I couldn’t stand that she was into weed. In my opinion, for those Asians that English is not their first language, communication barrier makes them hard to socialize, not to mention dating. But to who don’t have this problem, I don’t think it’s too much of an issue. Also, I think most college girls, especially freshman and sophomore(the chick I dated was a 18 years old freshman), are pretty dumb. Some of them mostly socialize with whom they know for a certain amount of time, like their sorority sisters or high school mates, they are not very open with outsiders and people with different ethnic background. I DO NOT LIKE WHAT ANN SAID, obviously she is not a nice person and the statement itself is stupid and racist because to most Americans they don’t even know much about Asian culture. Sometimes I feel frustrated about this. I am being a calculus TA here and I have seen so many kids here just cannot understand math, their brain just can’t process it. I have never been mean to any of them. Should I just say White kids are like animals they are too stupid to get any human science? Be nice to others please, mean people sucks!
January 5th, 2009 at 4:44 am
i find the video quite refreshing. i think people are simply more comfortable with what they are familiar with. the word racist is a socio-political label- perhaps there are a few (i think very few) who actually add some hatred to racial profiling maybe because they find security within their circle of friends who are like that. but really everything has to do with upbringing and the familiar enviroment. if it takes too much work it’s not worth it to force oneself to people who do not like you- although in the end i find that most people in the world are cool. i’m asian and lived most of my life in asia. recently, i am staying in europe and apparently, although everyone is really very very friendly it’s me who is not very comfortable with the european locals. but i would not call anyone racist. for some reason i just find asians easy to talk to because i am asian myself, although i get attracted to both hot women who are asians or non-asians and i also find african girls really hot. one of my first girlfriends in amsterdam was this really hot girl from south africa. and yes, i am short, nerdy, shy- only for a short while. so, i really don’t understand how men or women find the person they are attracted to.
January 5th, 2009 at 5:13 am
i quickly browsed over some comments above and read dave’s comment. and i agree with dave concerning the comments of ann, who likes everyone to stick with their “own kind”. i guess she thinks asians find her attractive for some reason. maybe everyone finds her too attractive but singles out asians because they look different. honestly, i cannot identify with her because i am not a physically attractive person, like i mentioned earlier, i’m just a shy asian guy who is short and carries a small dick- really pathetic. although, hot women find me attractive too, not initially though. but in some ways, i agree with ann, it is much easier to stick “with your own kind”- instead of forcing oneself to a group of unwelcoming people. i think any group of people who find me cool are cool- i don’t care if they are good looking or bad looking, as long as they find me attractive and they laugh at my jokes. in the end, it’s actually the most confident people who simply are comfortable with anyone they find interesting. since i am not attractive in the hollywood-sense, the only girls who find me attractive are those who are confident enough to go out with me. and frankly, i am attracted to the hollywood type beauty too, but that’s only an initial attraction, if she aint fun it’s no fun and the beauty fades quickly because the expectations are not met. too much beauty without much substance is ok for a few minutes or occasional conversations. and frankly, the ones who think they are too pretty are not very good in bed either (this is of course a generalization which do not make sense). ann is right, i have to stick with my own kind. the kind who are confident enough not to care.
January 7th, 2009 at 3:46 am
Heey, Im white and my man is asian, and damn do i love him alot.
January 7th, 2009 at 9:16 am
Haha. The reason why Asian guys can’t girls is because they don’t try. We whites got guts. Asian guys don’t do shit to get a girl. I bet they can get as many white girls as they like if they tried to go for them like we do(unless they aren’t great lookin’). =P
January 9th, 2009 at 10:51 am
I’ve seen this video a couple times, and it’s really cute; I’ve laughed every time. I don’t think it’s meant to be taken too seriously at all. Phillip is a cutie, imo, and he’s right, when he notices the imbalance in white girl/Asian guy couplings compared to the Asian girl/white guy pairing. It’s something I personally pay attention to because I’m a white female and I’m a sucker for Asian guys.
I’ve dated 2 Japanese guys (one relationship lasted for 2 years) and currently have my eye on a cute Chinese guy at work. Like other posters, my frustration with Asian guys is that they can be too shy, not aggressive enough in their approach to dating, which means I’m either waiting around for them to ask me out, or I have to do it myself, which is a powerful feeling, but that gets old too.
It doesn’t matter what race you are - if you don’t turn me on in some way (mentally, physically), no date, buddy. I would encourage those shy Asian men out there to feel out potential mates via casual conversation and see if she’s responding well at all. You might get lucky and run into someone like myself, or any one of the enthusiastic posters previous to me who exclaim how much they love Asian men
The moral of the story: Be confident and kind, be funny and honest - and you just might get lucky.
January 10th, 2009 at 1:42 pm
Im a island chick and I LOVE ASIAN GUYS….so fuck all the mother fuckers that says bad shit about asian guys. I reckon the only reasOn why asian guys dont go for the white chicks is because they know that they number SLUTS and they have all kinda desease so i really dont blame them for not asking the white girls out. YA HEARD MO-FOS !!
Anywayz, have a GOOD 1 :):)
January 10th, 2009 at 6:32 pm
i found this vid. pretty hilarious!
in the end it explains i guess.
i didnt find it at all boring , but interesting and funny. XD
i am white/hispanic and i LOVE asian guys.
as for dating a white guy… thats not for me, ive always like asian guys for some reason…
i would like to date that azn guy in the vid. he is hot XDDD
January 13th, 2009 at 5:51 pm
haha nice video
i think the problem are the asian guys who think being confidence is arrogance theres this level where youre neither confident nor arrogance , asian guys are just too chicken. most of em, i am asian too
January 14th, 2009 at 1:00 am
IM ASIAN AND I LOVE WHITE WOMEN!!!
January 20th, 2009 at 9:16 am
I’m a chinese Scot in the UK and my present girlfriend is Italian. Lots of my previous gf are white and never had a problem pulling white girls.
In fact, most of my former gf including my current Italian gf chose me over many white males pursuing them during the same time we started.
So for me at least there has never been an issue.
I do believe the fact that when you’re around girls if you’re relaxed and can talk to them and have some confidence it helps.
End of the day i believe in everyone mixing regardless of race. I would like to see the whole world mixing and having great children together. You ever noticed most mix race kids are so cute? Asians and whites, black and whites they are all cute man! lol.
And by mixing the we show by example that everyone can mix and there is less barriers and reasons to hate each other.
Peace!! lol.
January 20th, 2009 at 9:24 am
…and just to add to the point lol, here is a text i received from my Italian girlfriend a few minutes ago: ‘ur ambitious, determined, good in bed, sweet n cute wif ego issues…’ lol. Btw, when she said ego issue i only can assume she says i have too big of an ego lol :).
Well i c it as confidence. Anyhoo, just as i’m on the subject i thought i would share this.
Peace!!!! lol. From a Scottish Asian chap.
January 20th, 2009 at 6:59 pm
The problem is not asian guys cannot get white girls. The true reason is that so many of them don’t want to have white girls.
I am a chinese guy and I study in USA University. My roommate is an American guy who is very nice. He told me some truth about American girls. He said that eight of ten american girls have sex disease in USA because they have messy sex activities with so many sex partners in the daily life. It makes me feel that American girls are really dirty….. I don’t wanna be affected by sex disease even HIV. Therefore, I will definitely marry with our Chinese girls.
Another problem is that Chinese guys never treat love as a game. If they date with girls, they want to hold their hands to get marry in the future. My American roommate told me that most of White girls never treat love seriously. Even though a Chinese guy has married with a white girl, they will divorce within two years because of so many difference in cultures and different views to the World. Chinese parents want their sons have a stable marriage, that is why so many of them reject to accept White girls… Therefore, I will not date with white girls even don’t wanna give a try!
January 30th, 2009 at 1:44 pm
Dude that video is really funny and true!
I’m a white girl and I think Asian guys are sooo cute! My boyfriend is Asian. The reason I started liking him when I met him is because he was cute, confident, and funny.
If a guy or girl likes someone, all they gotta do is be confident when they talk to them and just ask them out. Because really the worst thing that might go wrong is they will say no. But hey, you tried, and that experience could possibly help next time.
~Asian guys + white girls rock!
January 31st, 2009 at 3:37 am
My dream is to marry a beautiful white girl and live happily ever after hehe .idk if it’ll ever come true..oh im a malay from Malaysia(Malaysia boleh) which is same as chinese because we’re asians..
but the thing i love about white girls is..they are very direct and honest too they, most of the time will tell it to your face…i believe had i lived in America( which i had a long time ago ).. and i see a cute white girl and i approached her and smile and say hi! and shows interest towards her and she responds positively.I feel the first step is already accomplished with flying colors..but im not living in America or any country where whites are a majority..the only white girls i see is tourists plus i heard that at some location in my country they are whites but untill then.. my search goes on…will i ever find my true white love…
February 4th, 2009 at 11:21 am
I posted here once b4. Anyways, I’ve been single my whole life(except for online relationships, if that even counts). And I’m an Asian American guy(Chinese). I’ve had several girls online telling me I’m good looking, but no such comments in my school or in my own town for that matter! Until the media has a better way of exposing Asian males(and other races) in a positive way, then it’ll make it that much more difficult. But yeah, what ppl said above is true…just be confident and atleast try……which is something I haven’t done yet xD I would love to see these stereotypes just die, and these stereotypes are not proof of denial, because they were never true to begin with.
On a side note: there is virtually NO Asian male and White Female relationships in my school…or even town!…….I guess, I’m moving to the South, lol!!!! xDDDD maybe they’ll like me there =)
February 9th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
People are all the same, sadly enough. All people suck equally. We are all racists and bigots to varying degrees. I guess Asian chicks that date white are either racists (against AMs) or open-minded (to other races). I guess white chicks that would not date asians are either racists (against AMs) or think AMs are no into WFs. But the key is, to know there are extreme racists and bigots out there. And you have to get through the racists ones, to find the keepers. You can’t find the keepers w/o dealing with the “hate” we have for one another. The reason their is an imbalance in the dating ratio is simply hate. Asian girls hating themselves, white dudes hating Asian men, white girls hating on Asians, and and Asian men hating on all of the above. The minute you treat people the same regardless of race, we won’t have to see these sophmoric satires, and deal with more important issues. We are all brainwashed to think as a collective. Which is good to move societies, but when it comes to love, try to think on your own. You can’t choose which country you are a citizen of (generally), but you can choose who you live with for the rest of your life (or hope to).
February 11th, 2009 at 3:47 pm
Asian guys are hot…
I’m single and I wish I had an Asian guy.. I like the slightly cocky ones, no shy guys for me! They have to be shorter than me (I’m 5′9) and have a nice chest… so i’m picky! lol. Well they say, never settle for less, because you’ll get even less than what you thought you settled for! The main actor in this movie is hot. I wonder if he’s still in Dego..
February 20th, 2009 at 6:05 am
Cmon are you kidding me. Everyone knows white chics don’t dig on Asian dudes because they have small dicks. I thought everyone was aware of the situation? Bwahahahahaaha j/k
February 21st, 2009 at 2:42 am
May be in America this is a problem. I know that in country of Kazakhstan caucasian girls have no problem marrying asian guys, because Kazakhstan used to be a republic of USSR, people there do speak Russian besides their native language, and so some cultural commonality had built up during soviet era.
February 25th, 2009 at 10:50 am
HAHAHAHAAHAAHAHAHAA….damn..good stuff
March 11th, 2009 at 3:47 pm
ann is a fucking racist white bitch! she’s a female version of HITLER, beware of that hitler whore guys. i think her parents were the leaders of the kkk maybe still are, i bet she is ugly, may looks like amy winehouse or some ugly bitch. what a pathetic piece of human being that is a waste of breath of God. so fucking ignorant and dumb ass. she’s the bitch that’s probably glued herself to the television and the damn media. she said that asian guys are dumb???? where has she been? under a rock?? statistic shows that generally asian people are smarter than others not to be cocky. but it’s true, if you go to college or universities you see asian students everywhere, even though asian are the least percentage of people in america, but in the school system they are dominant. ann bitch ass just crawled out from her mother’s vigina all this years!
March 16th, 2009 at 11:17 am
jimmy stfu
March 16th, 2009 at 5:54 pm
I adore Asian guys.
I can’t stand hairy men at all!!
I know many white guys who are obsessed with Asian girls/women.
Why shouldn’t they be?
I think it is more common to see white guys and asian women.
As for the other way around , I don’t see it so much.
Hopefully taht will change.
April 1st, 2009 at 5:17 am
I am white girl from Nordic Scandinavian and I really prefer Asian guys, but sadly here in my country is not so many Asian:(.
April 7th, 2009 at 4:26 am
Hey to all the women that like Asian guys…ok where you girls live cause I can’t find anyone in Oregon. I adore all types of women. Each has there own quality and traits. I have only dated white females and currently in search for another but since I am older now harder to get a date.
April 11th, 2009 at 3:25 pm
i think those asian girls are just white washed.
me? im the complete opposite,
i mean, i can rock both race, but, i perfer asians<3
April 20th, 2009 at 2:26 am
i lost my virginity to finnish/swedish girl in my first year of college. years later i found out she married an asian dude, she now has a kid with him. (wish em both all the best)
anyhow, i dont have a problem with white men…maybe b’cuz am v good looking. but i do have a problem with getting any1 to marry me. its mainly cuz i dont earn much money.
so the moral the story is…shit happens.
April 22nd, 2009 at 7:06 pm
Hi. Im a funny-good looking (nah you wouldnt believe it ;d) asian guy and im from indonesia
This topic sounds interesting for me and it makes my head spinning after i read all of the comments *_* it opens my mind a lil’
.But asian male is a sex addict??!! JESUS this part is rly rly wrong. You never met me..if you were you’ll change your mind coz i’ll never touch ya grrrr *^*
Someone said that asian male usually shy, i think its true sometimes…it was happens to me too
Here’s a story about a shy asian guy
Asian male think “oh i like that white chick but she must be looking for a tall-hot-white guy-full of muscles just like hulk, not brown monkey like me” so he act cool and never showin his feelin to her.
The white chick think “awww that brown monkey looks cute even without carryin a big banana, but it looks like he doesnt interested in me..whatever!!”
….and then the white chick and brown monkey will never be together…sad ending huh.
Yah thats one thing thats happens in my life, finally i realize it but its too late
So next time better tell what you feel…be a man.
Racism is still overwhelming this world, and cant change it as long as all hitler wanna be didnt change their mind. Actually we must consider differences is one thing that we will always deal with, and we must love differences.
For every guy that accept differences…keep rock man!! \m/
and for every girl that accept differences such ass maggie,louhi,brittany…can we talk???
Hehehe JK
April 24th, 2009 at 11:29 am
Guess how i bumped into this video? I’ve been googling for the colour white for my research, and this video seems interesting enough lol. Seriously its true, we asian guys need more confidence, this video is totally not so true but hilarious tho. I live in asia and i’m Asian, but the place i work hv lots of white girls. Its pretty easy to approach them dude, all u need is confidence. Usually “wanna hang out after work?” always works like a charm to me. White gals here, call me!!!!
May 18th, 2009 at 12:24 am
I would like to share with you my story,
okay so I’m south African, and half French, I have grown up living in the UK,
and I’m going to be truthful here, I would date a African Americana, Asian, Caucasian, Mexican, mixed, Native American, Indian I DO NOT CARE what I guys nationality, ethnicity is I say that if you love someone, your not going to care about what race they are! I’m a Caucasian female of mixed race, and I’m proud of my ancestry!
Anyway I think the fist time I really started noticing Asian guys was when I met a good friend of mines cousin from china, I had a major crush on him, but being me, I was too shy to tell him, and he was my best friends cousin, so I did not tell him, to watch him from afar was enough for me…or so I though, many times I thought of telling him, but before I knew it, it was too late and he was leaving for college, I regret not saying anything to him, telling him how I felt, but there is nothing I can do about it now, all I can say is that if you…if you love someone tell them, before its too late…I learnt this the hard way….please don’t make my same mistake… and tell them…because if you don’t…you may live to regret it…
May 25th, 2009 at 12:33 pm
maybe for me its the inferiority that sits in when asian guys try to be with white girls.
but not all coz there are some asian guys marries white women.
shybaby
June 11th, 2009 at 10:22 pm
yeah, your problem guys is that u don’t do a thing to get a girl. i’m living in an asian country currently, and i’m sooo upset bout the way most asian guys are, so passive. there are lots of them who want to date me, but damn they just dream about it and that’s it. i tried to deal with it in the beginning but hey i can’t do everything myself, i’m really giving up and thinking about moving to europe, only because it’s so difficult to be in a relationship here. and i’ve dated quite many of them, different age, social status etc, even a superstar is among ‘em. but same shit going over and over again. please come on guys, go work for getting a girl!
June 13th, 2009 at 8:01 am
I am Filipino, 15 years old, and yes I catch a lot of white girls (sexy, attractive) that are eye-balling me but there not my type but I like white girls especially this girl that I really like and we are good friends we pretend to be a married couple, well she started it she told me that from now on we’re married, and I do flirt with her, but I am too busy for a relationship for now maybe next year. But anyway, well my friends (of all races) describe me as a cool dude, they even call me their Top Asian, Fantastic Filipino, and etc. and I appreciate that I am also the smart-ass in my group of friends…some really like me when I act like that but not too much to the extent that you are explaining long Mathematical problems.
But the real lesson here is CONFIDENCE and the way you act around your friends also counts, because it shows how out-going, and fun of a person you are — INDIRECTLY sending the girl a message of your personality.
June 17th, 2009 at 12:03 pm
you’re best to stick to your won culture. western girls pretend to like asian, indian, and middle eastern boys so they can exploit them. they have dillusional and dangerous fantasies about the exotic culture, and fulfill them by exploiting eastern boys for attention. sex and money. leave the western trash to western trash. don’t allow the to control ur ulture like they’;ve done for centuries.
I need to address a very sensitive and often controversial topic. I had a very stressful chat with a fellow ’so called’ Punjabi . It was very upsetting. I will share it with you, without disclosing names. I will add that the person did have some good points, and yet, at the same time, some very wrong misconceptions. Basically, he is a ’so called Punjabi’ who has chosen to abandon his culture and date a hochha gar with a different mind set and lack of values than what he is supposed to have. Instead of improving his culture, he’s enjoying someone who will give him attention when she’s actually playing mind games with him. Now, before anyone thinks of me as horrible, or bad, stereotypical or discriminatory, I must say this…that is NOT my intention, and I will add that the person does have SOME good points. YET, he also has A LOT to learn. First off, he is dating a Gori girl. He had also once tried to seduce me, saying if you didn’t already have a sardar, I would have gone after you. I replied to him that even if I hadn’t had my own sardarji at the time, I wouldn’t have gone for him anyway. Men like that are more trouble than they are worth…and that worth really isn’t much. This is basically what the conversation is about. He had trouble in the past with a Punjabi girl (he had an arranged marriage which ended in divorce after 6 months), and has now decided to date a Gori girl. (In this case, he claims to be Sikh, and she is a protestant who smokes and drinks, which is against Sikh religion and disrespectful to his religion and culture.) I will add commentary after the following -
” i think white ppl are much more honest what do u know sweetie, u dont know what those girls are
i actually dont like that culture i know there are many good girls, but you are too over board for me to make a point if u listen to me the culture is too shallow, they expect so much angel like behavior from guys that its almost impossible to approach a girl, only thing is if girl approaches you, girls dont do it, so its much easier from guys who are from outside to approach girls and these girls are shallow, they hate beard, they just want to have good time, ethics, spirituallity, is shit to them, so they do what they want, and virgin guys are left to walk the dignified way of culture, other thing here is, sikhism and Punjabi culture are totally different things and can exist without each other a muslim can be punjabi, a hindu can be punjabi, culture is notthing, i have my pride in being a sikh madam, will u kill your infant daughter it happens in punjab come on ground, what do u think those ppl want, everybody wants sex, gori say it, desi act something else, do something else, culture does not adds any virtue, yes if its a practicing sikh girl, then its different no they dont kill their kids, gori is not absolute term, there are americans, and there are europeans, and ppl vary”
Ironically enough, the same guys who say this also do THIS - read the following articles -
The Indian government has launched a new scheme to help women who are married and then abandoned by men of Indian origin living in the West. The Ministry of Overseas Indian Affairs says women who are divorced or deserted within two years of marriage will be entitled to legal and financial aid. According to one estimate, up to 20,000 women have been abandoned by their non-resident Indian (NRI) husbands. Mostly, the husbands disappear after pocketing fat dowries paid at weddings. An official in the ministry, SS Rana, told the BBC that women who needed help could approach Indian missions abroad directly or through non-governmental organisation approved by them. “The deserted women will be given financial assistance of $1,000 for seeking legal help and will also be offered counselling,” he said. Initially this facility will be given to women who have been married for two years or less.
Migrant populations -
But Mr Rana said: “If we get a large number of such cases where women are abandoned after the two-
year deadline, we will review the time limit.” Officials say most cases of NRIs duping their Indian
brides are reported in the United States, Canada, Britain, Australia and New Zealand – countries with substantial Indian migrant populations. And most of the abandoned women come from the Punjab,
Gujarat, Andhra Pradesh and Kerala - states which send out a large number of migrants to the West. Indian protest against dowries-
Dowries have been the subject of much debate in India. The deputy secretary in the National Commission for Women, Gurpreet Deo, says they have received several complaints where after marriage a woman goes abroad with her husband only to find that her husband is already married. “In many cases, men claim they hold fantastic jobs abroad, but when the wife goes, she realises that he is either out of work or does some odd jobs,” she says. Then there are “holiday brides”. Ms Deo says: “In these cases, NRIs come to India for a holiday, get married, pocket the dowry, and then disappear without leaving a trace.” With their dreams shattered, the duped women have to grapple not just with
emotional scars, but with the practicalities of being abandoned. Sometimes they also have to deal with pregnancy and worry about bringing up children on their own.
Highly coveted -
Because of social stigma, they are unable to remarry. In India a financially well-established son- in-law living in the UK, US or Canada is highly coveted. A Green Card holder in the US [which gives a foreigner right of residency and right to work] or one possessing a similar document in the UK or
Canada or other Western countries is regarded as a “good catch”. Ms Deo says the reason why NRIs get
away after duping their wives is “because in their greed to send their daughters abroad, most parents don’t do enough verification. There is very little awareness about these problems”. Once dumped, there is little these women can do. Ms Deo says: “Because there are extra-territorial boundaries involved, most women are left in the lurch when their NRI husbands run away. There is no legal way to get them back. “The police are often reluctant to file a case. And even if they do, and the court issues a summons, how do you deliver the summons on foreign territory? The court can order confiscation of property, but what about those NRIs who do not own property in India?” The National Commission for Women is now demanding tougher laws to deal with such cases. The commission has also called on the Indian government to sign extradition treaties with foreign countries so that the runaway grooms can be brought back to India and tried in a court of law. “Domestic violence or matrimonial offences at present are not extraditable offences. We need to address that,” Ms Deo says.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/4837122.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/4785750.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/4592890.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/3696562.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/3246786.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/3283989.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/3048417.stm
For those of you who don’t know…..the only thing separating Desi, Middle Eastern and Gori are supposedly two things – skin colour and mind set. Both are considered Caucasian according to wikipedia.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race
(The term Caucasian race or Caucasian is used to refer to people whose ancestry can be traced back to Europe, North Africa, West Asia, South Asia and parts of Central Asia. It was once considered a
useful taxonomical categorization of human racial groups based on a presumed common geographic
and/or linguistic origin.)
in.news.yahoo.com/070912/43/6kn1o.html
This ignorant rundi make some really offensive stereotypes about Indians and her assumptions about
the similarities between they and Russians. (If link doesn’t work, here’s the article)
Moscow, Sep 12 (RIA Novosti) Indian men promise to be the ideal spouses for Russian women, affected as they are by a high male death rate owing largely to unhealthy lifestyles. That is the opinion of Maria Arbatova, leading Russian feminist author and prominent television presenter. ‘The import of eligible bachelors from India is my big geopolitical idea,’ she told RIA Novosti news agency. India can be of help now that Russia has come to grips with its formidable demographic problem, Arbatova said during the launch of her latest book ‘A Taste of India’ at the 20th Moscow International Book Fair recently. ‘First, both Russians and Indians are Indo-Europeans, and we speak related languages - just look at the many similarities between Sanskrit and modern Russian vocabularies. Second, and even more important, the archetypal Indian man is a fanatic paterfamilias. (Highest ranking in family status) To raise many children is his cherished dream, and he makes the best possible husband,’ remarked Arbatova, who is married to Shumeet of West Bengal in eastern India. Attracting Indian bachelors to Russia should be a government policy, she argues, or Russia will soon have two crosses to bear - one of its own male deaths and the other of the Chinese birth rate. ‘Asian Russia, from the Pacific coast up to the Urals, is full of Chinese men anxious to marry Russian girls. If the Chinese are not promptly balanced out, no matter by whom - Indians, Africans or extraterrestrials, either Asian Russia will become a Chinese province before 2050 or Chinese will become Russia’s second official language,’ she jokes ironically. ‘Just look, Russia has two employment agencies in China, and none in India. Shame!’ Arbatova’s book went on sale last spring and was on the bestseller list in summer. Britain’s International Biographical Center of Cambridge has awarded her its 20th Century Outstanding Achievement gold medal. The author points out many similarities between Russian and Indian life. ‘Socialism got my country out of the Big Game for 70 years. Colonialism did the same to India for two centuries. Both nations are now getting back to their sources in the age of globalist. That’s hard to do - like walking home inside a centrifuge,’ she says.
Now, the big difference is mind set. The thinking of the two cultures. So called ‘ white’ people are no more honest than Punjabi, or Desi in general. Or anyone else for that matter. (Often times, they are far LESS honest in fact.) And, whilst Punjab, or India, or any Desi, Asian, or Middle Eastern region is not perfect, there is much to be said FOR it. (Otherwise, why would the Goris want to copy and exploit eastern culture to begin with?) Also, the actions of wanting guys (or people in general) to act like angels is far from a bad thing. However, It must be equal for both girls and guys, and must be realistic and for pure, good, constructive intentions. ‘Gori/Gora’ males and females (in general) alike are very materialistic, set on ego, and live life to fulfill their own temptations. They are very false and misleading. This happens in all cultures, but particularly in the western cultures and Goris are incredibly shallow. The macho dominance in Gora males, and the sex pot attitude of the Gori girls is incredibly misleading. Also, on the news all too often many reports of some Gori, Latino, and/or black girl who has gotten pregnant, dumped her baby in the toilet or a garbage can, or they sit in motels and have crystal meth labs, they have sex with multiple partners, and they don’t have regrets. They do drugs, get drunk, have orgies, etc. and expose their children to it. With many Goris, Latinos, and blacks also is the need to show off….wearing tiny clothes, flirting wildly with others, having public kissing/petting sessions to show off, etc. The need for discipline is crucial to create a successful global society, and to keep our humanity going. Lack of virtue and values leads to our demise, because we allow ourselves to cause trouble to us and others. Gori/Gora, Latino, or Black does not mean a person is bad. However, these people are more known for their inappropriate behaviors, due to cultural upbringing. On a few other notes, many Goris also dislike face hair and / or long hair. And Goris also have just as much, if not less concern for their spirituality…. Or they have false ideas from it which contribute to some of society’s evils. They gain false views on things, and then try to spread it forth, whilst still committing other acts, making them hypocrites.
Also, many Goris are fascinated by other cultures they’re not used to, and if they find the person friendly, they may latch to them for attention, but not because their souls are truly bound to that
person, despite what they may say. they are enamored by something they’re not used to. the whole reason they want to become a part of eastern culture is that they have a strange, sad, dangerous fantasy which destroys others, and they do not care. And, yet, on
the flip side, many Goris also make fun of cultures they’re not used to, and harass them. This isn’t meant to be Gori/Gora bashing, but merely pointing out the fact that Goris/Goras are often the most apt to harass or exploit Desi (and other cultures), and in general, people of one culture (especially western vs. eastern) will try to take advantage of each other for false reasons (though it should be pointed out that not EVERYONE is like this, in general, it is more common. I have seen more women than men (especially Gori women) who play the emotional toy game on a long term basis. ( The men seem less successful at the game they play than the women.) They will flirt in public (or on publicly visible websites), tell the person they love them, say they are soul mates, they want to marry, that their families are getting ready for their wedding plans, etc. This is either most often lies, made very craftily so that the other person will be gullible enough to believe the one stating the aforementioned sweet talk, or they will make serious plans, at which point, when the victim reaches the goal (going to the other’s country, marrying them, etc.). The result is the predator using the victim for money, sex, and their own egotistical gain. The person is like a drug to them, and like any drug, the drug must be taken away and the predator must be ‘broken’ of their habit before any good can come This relationship can last for many years without proper detection and intervention, and usually unknowingly harmful to the untrained eye as the predator has their plans plotted out with amazing precision and dedication. Sometimes, and often, if desperate enough, the predator will have a few victims with varying degrees of seriousness, and commonly at least one person who they attach themselves to most seriously, especially if the person is easily led to believe they love them. These people become a pawn in a game of emotions, money, sex, and other assorted gains. The predators are looking for easy, negative attention. Basically they want sympathy, sweet talk, and whatever else they can get. This is a mental problem. These people are mentally ill, and they are avoiding their issues, and actually feeding their disease by these actions. Often times they will say they had troubled home life, or a troubled past…whether actually real or fiction…for attention. And when a person reacts the way the predator wants them to, it’s like giving an alcoholic a case of booze and telling them ‘Drink up, I have more for you. ‘ If you truly want to do good for that person, do your best to guide them away from these actions, and find alternative, proper activities for them to feel better from, and people of their own culture who can help them live positively productive lives. encourage them to find volunteer work, or a proper mate near them, teach them about the difference between seeking attention, and guiding and inspiring to help others, as that’s much more fulfilling for ALL than trying to get attention. If done effectively, it does much greater good for them and for others,especially other potential victims who may be terribly hurt when they eventually discover what the predator was truly seeking. (For a humourous take on this - see http://thebots.net/, look under videos, and then ‘The Bots Never Fall in Love’.) Some things to look out for are public displays of affection (internet wise, referring to promises of marriage, calling each other Jaan/Jaanu or other pet names, telling each other they love each other truly, love each other only, are soul mates, etc. especially after not knowing each other very long, and only having the internet and/or phone communication. Usually the people have never physically met, though physical meeting often does not improve the situation, and can make things much worse, and much more dangerous. Also look for pictures of one or both people (especially in their profiles) photo shopped to look like they are together, often in a romantic pose. Look for profile, blog, or other pics, where one or both people are modeling in seductive, suggestive poses, trying to emphasize their busts, rear ends, or anything that may be seducing enough. They will often promise and swear they respect the other person’s religion, often claiming they are going to convert or have converted. In the case of Sikhi, one can easily tell a person is dishonest about their respect for the religion by their use of the above tactics - the flirting, the seductive pictures, often with body parts, little clothing, and/or cleavage showing, as modesty and focusing on the soul over the body are crucial. Similarly, the predator will also claim to respect victim’s culture. Be especially aware of someone who will say the respect and love the culture - when asked, they will use stereotypes learn from their culture (like western stereotypes of India/Desi regions, Asian, and Middle Eastern regions ). Some really tricky types will take extra time to sound more convincing. Sometimes, the predator will say they do good things to make themselves look better. Or they will try to portray themselves in a convincingly attractive manner according to what the victim appreciates - often these are deliberate lies and/or exaggerations. Also, be aware of flirtatious ids/aliases/nicknames with things such as baby girl, sexy, play girl, etc. - name that have a sexually or inappropriately suggestive nature to them should be warnings, though this is not always true, as some people are now choosing more normal ID’s to hide their actions.
People like this are shameful. They are not serious or respectful, and are only trying to achieve personal emotional gain. They cannot be ‘reformed’. This only feeds into their act. They have to be ignored and others made aware of these actions. Make sure that these people do not get the attention they crave. That is the best way to help them, because you teach them that their actions are wrong, and they are more or less forced to change if they want proper respect. Please learn the difference between love and lust - LOVE is shown by first creating a mature bond with foundations from guiding, inspiring, and working to improve another person’s life, without attachment of romantic or sexual feelings. We show we love another more truly when we work to make them better people, then when we sweet talk them and flirt. This, in fact,shows more disrespect, as these actions show seeking only attention and egotistical satisfaction from the person we say we love, and from others around us. this is very false, misleading, and is a form of exploitation. Similarly, Pornography (blue movies, xxx movies, inappropriate pictures of people/animals/people and animals, and or other objects, used for a sexual nature) is lustful exploitation, and by involving yourself with such things, you help to proliferate the lack of morals, lust, and degradation the people who make these horrid acts involve themselves in. These are lives of lust, ego, disease, violence, drug and alcohol abuse, etc. Read this article - http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp articleId=281474977121845. Pornography is also very false in what it represents. It is not intended for information purposes, and involves much false information, fantasy, and things derived only for lust. It does not show how to properly respect another person. Also, it is often abusive, either in the message it portrays, or in the creation of the piece itself. It is created by models and actors who do not love each other. Often times, violence, disease, drug and alcohol abuse, etc. are common, and almost part of the normal environment. Also, the actors/models usually are hiding emotional and or mental problems, and so turn to this as a form of temporary remedy for issues that only grow worse, sometimes leading to murder or suicide. Those who involve themselves in such activities are only promoting these horrid (and in some places, illegal) acts. PLEASE ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT THOUGH SEX IS NECESSARY PART OF LIFE, IT SHOULD NEVER HAVE PRIORITY BEFORE RESPECT FOR THE SOUL, GUIDING,AND INSPIRING, AND DOING ALL YOU CAN TO PROVE THE LIVES OF OTHERS AND VIRTUES OF SOCIETY. For example - Bhagat Puran Singh is a much better person to follow than Brad Pitt, Leonardo Dicaprio, Angelina Jolie, etc. Also, I will agree that one does not need to be Punjabi to be Sikh, nor does one need to be Sikh to be Punjabi…BUT there IS a connection between Sikhi and Punjab, as our faith originated there and that in itself is a reason to appreciate Punjab, whether you are Sikh or not, because many Sikhs are still very good people, and do an awful lot to contribute to the best of society, especially many Punjabi Sikhs, Hindus, Muslims, and other faiths, and just because there are bad people in Punjab does not mean hate the culture. (Equally so, same goes for the Gori culture - it does not mean though Goris are far from perfect to hate them right away, but it does not mean that you turn to them and abandon your own culture and say you hate it because you see faults in it. this is equally as wrong.) If you find fault in your culture…. Work to correct it. It’s a challenge, and one that may seem near impossible, but only because there is not enough effort being put forth to make it possible. Remember that there is no one bad or good culture itself, it’s the stereotypes and lack of values and virtues that people of the culture have decided to follow. There are good and bad in all nations, but increasingly, much more bad than good, and we as collective society worldwide need to stop this and turn it around for the better of us all. If we abandon our culture to seek attention from others, we lose our identity, eventually our culture - Example, if all leave India and marry Goris, there will be no India, and instead a new culture with lack of values. (An additional note - what is written here is general common sense. There are references to Sikh /Sikhi /Sikhs, however this is not limited to Sikhs alone. This work was written by a Sikh so it is an example. It also is not intended to push any one person’s ideas on others, or push any one religion in other’s faces, or to put one religion on a hypothetical pedestal whilst tearing down other faiths. Also, nowhere is any one religion or type of people intentionally being seen as good or bad.) So, to make a point…..if you don’t like how your culture is, don’t make a petty escape from it and say you don’t like it, or worse, attaching yourself to another culture who pretends to appreciate you for attention - work to improve it. Our cultures are important to us as they are our history, our heritages, and much can be learned from them. If we all abandoned our cultures because of things we didn’t like, we’d all be in a right sorry state. Our cultures give us incredible information about many things - who we were, who we are, who we need to be, who we need to NOT be, as well as information on diseases and physical body differences. We need to keep our culture intact, and respect it, because just like us, no culture is fully perfect, but we must work to do the best for our cultures, and never forget who we are, and where we came from. just as we need to improve our faiths, when they have imperfections. Please help your faith and culture by stopping people like this, and get them to realize what they’re doing. PLEASE DO NOT MERELY IGNORE THESE SITUATIONS AND SAY THEY ARE NONE OF MY BUSINESS, I HAVE NO REASON TO DEAL WITH THEM. THEY EFFECT YOUR CULTURE, YOUR RELIGION, AND THOUGH MAYBE NOT YOURSELF DIRECTLY, IT EFFECTS ALL OF US INDIRECTLY, AND COULD EFFECT YOUR FRIENDS OR FAMILY, PERHAPS EVEN YOURSELF IN THE FUTURE. PLEASE LOOK OUT FOR ANOTHER PERSON, AND TRY TO STOP AND PREVENT THESE ACTS SO THAT THE NUMBER OF THEM IS GREATLY REDUCED. IT IS YOUR JOB AS A RESPONSIBLE CITIZEN AND HUMAN BEING. YOU RESPECT YOUR FELLOW PEOPLE, YOUR CULTURE, YOUR RELIGION, THEN IT IS JUST AS MUCH YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AS IT IS THOSE INVOLVED IN THE SITUATION, BECAUSE THEY NEED OUTSIDE GUIDANCE TO CORRECT THEM AND STOP THE SITUATION. IF YOU TAKE THE INITIATIVE, AND WORK TO STOP THESE TERRIBLE THINGS, YOU ARE A VERY GREAT PERSON, AND A ROLE MODEL FOR YOUR COMMUNITY. THANK YOU!
Also, a note for the westerners, be aware that just as I write this about westerners, this can happen with easterners as well, and when you go too far for another culture, you can be left a victim BY other cultures, because they are often are and willing to exploit you back. Read this (PLEASE NOTE THIS IS NOT MEANT TO BE AGAINST MUSLIMS AS I HAVE MANY MUSLIM FRIENDS, IT IS MERELY AN EXAMPLE I FOUND ONLINE, AND CAN HAPPEN WITH ANY RELIGION) -
http://www.renewamerica.us/columns/stock/050513
The following is the story of “Ann,” told in her own words, about life married to a Muslim.
Well, gosh there is so much to say. I guess you could say when I met “Ahmed” he swept me off my feet. I was a single parent going to school full time and working full time. When I met Ahmed he was so charming; so full of promises — which were all lies. After a whirlwind romance, he asked me to marry him and I said yes. We lived in my apartment since he had nothing but an old car and a few personal belongings — and a bunch of promises. Ahmed told me he was not legal before I married him and I agreed to sponsor him so he could get his green card. After we married he went to visit his family in Syria. I was not invited, which hurt me, but there was no reasoning with him. Ahmed was gone for a month but he called once a week and came back with lots of gold jewelry for me. How nice! I remember thinking. I got pregnant two years later and was very ill during the pregnancy. I had to be hospitalized and Ahmed just dumped me off at the hospital and left me there. When I was released, I was told to go on bed rest. Ahmed would not pick me up from the hospital so I got a friend to pick me up and take me home. Ahmed was sitting on the couch and he barked, “I’m hungry! I want food.” I, of course, ignored him and went to lie down. Our son was born and he was very ill because of some type of unidentified genetic disorder. Ahmed named our son “Abu” and I was not given a choice in the matter. Abu was very sick. He spent four months in the Intensive Care Unit and needed a tracheotomy and a feeding tube to live. Abu is now going on eight and lives at home with me. He is on a ventilator and requires nursing and 24 hour supervision. While Ahmed and I were together it was horrible. I was not allowed to work or go to school to finish college. He said I was having affairs with everyone at school and he was very mean with a vile temper. I was the one who had provided insurance for the family. I worked for the government and had great benefits. I took two years leave when Abu was ill and was trying to go back so we could have health insurance. Ahmed was livid when he found out I wanted to go back to work. We had nurses caring for Abu. I explained to him about the insurance and he did not care that we were living in poverty at one of my relative’s homes. Ahmed was never much of a worker. He refused to work for anyone that was not an Arab Muslim. I did not return to my job and I took cobra insurance which was $250 per month. We were living on less than $1,200 per month. I had my daughter from a previous marriage living with us and at night she would sometimes want to sleep with me and Ahmed would say no one sleeps in my bed. “If your daughter sleeps with you, I will divorce you.” he said. Once, I accidentally brushed up against Ahmed during Ramadan and he said I made him dirty because women were unclean. He also told me that his father had told him that women had half a brain and were not to be trusted. This comes from a man that can not read or write. Had I had known all of this about Ahmed I would have never ever gotten involved with him. There were several occasions when he spat in my face and called me filthy names. He would snap his fingers and command tea, “NOW.” He also tried to bilk me out of money to pay off a bad business deal. Ahmed was a faithful Muslim. He was also an abusive husband, a bad father, a liar, and a thief. He was very lazy and was unable to provide the basic support for a family, love, or companionship. That is why I left him. He was sucking the life out of me. I was the walking dead. Often Ahmed would say he was exhausted and would take vacations with his Arab male friends. He went to France, New York, Mexico — all while I stayed home taking care of our son. Like I said, I ended up leaving. I just could not take it. I was living in pure hell. I live with my son and daughter. Ahmed relocated to a town 60 miles away four years ago. He visits his son 5 to 6 hours a week and he says if I contact a lawyer he will return to his country and I will not get a penny. About two years ago he made me an offer. He was going to visit his family and asked if I could watch over his shop and that he would pay me. I decided to do it for
the money. When he got back he did not pay me. He said the income tax that I got was my payment. I also found out he was wife-hunting to boot. After that encounter, I keep as far away from him as possible. He is full of lies — just an evil man. I get very little support from this man. Remember, our son is disabled and on a ventilator at home. Ahmed is now with a new wife he brought back from Syria. While he was engaged to this woman, he took an ad out on the internet for a local wife in case the one from Syria could not get a visa. Ahmed’s new wife is now pregnant again and she has had several miscarriages. Ahmed still does not have insurance nor did he think of all the genetic problems he has in his family. His current wife is like a cat with no claws. She is covered head to toe and is a high school drop out. She will not be able to fight off her evil tormentor as I did and in the end he will suck the life out of her too and there will not be a thing that she can do. Please be aware that there are many women who I have encountered that have suffered because they got involved with a Muslim man. I got out and I want all women to be aware of these horrible; lying; abusive; so-called-god-fearing men. I was little more then gum on the bottom of his shoe and I was college educated and attractive. I never thought this could happen to me. I want my story told so that the truth will be known. Please, if you are involved with one of these guys think twice — don’t waste your time. Just move on.
Barbara J. Stock is an RN of over 23 years and is fairly new to political writing. She has had articles posted on BushCountry, GOPUSA, AmericanDaily, RepublicanDailyNews, Town Hall,
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I am, however, glad
not ALL are this way. There are a few westerners in my friends lists who are very special people.
Thanks Paola, Kate, Katarina, and Molly for being different! Also, all through history, the westerners were known to go through civilizations, overtake them, and turn them to their culture. From
the ancient Greeks, to Persia, to the Mayas and native Americans in the U S A. Europeans took over
great civilizations and forced their own religions (namely Christianity), their own thinking, their own ideals, their own lack of morals, and these great civilizations not only disappeared, but became as lacking in virtue as those who transformed them. Do you want India to return possession of the west? We fought for independence from the west, only to be handing it back to them. Do you want
to lose your identity, and become another one of the westerner’s conquerings? India was once owned
by Britain, and gained its independence, but it seems India is willing to give itself back to the west, in favour of the false attention the west gives it. This does not mean, however that Desi lok and Goris can’t be friends, or even lovers, but both parties must be incredibly mature and truly not be wishing to have bad alternative
intentions for the other. This is VERY rare.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=europeans+forced+christianity+on&btnG=Google+Search
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=europeans+killed+many+to+force+christianity+on&btnG=Search
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(Some links may not be relevant.) Please search similar terms for more information. People don’t
wish to own up to when they do wrong, so they want to cause trouble for those who work to stop this
crap. Something must be done about all these terrible people. We cannot simply let these people do
more bad and turn our backs ignoring them. Working to stop them is part of our lesson as well in life.
It teaches us not to be like them, it teaches us to know how to help others not be like them. If we
act like cowards, we add to the problems because we are too weak to stand up for the morals and
virtues crucial to life.
June 19th, 2009 at 8:26 am
Well, I am a straight up an Indian guy. I though the video was hilarious. To be more realistic the reason that Indian guys don’t date as many women or lets say white women is not because of a lack of assertiveness or low self esteem or due to racial tensions but..
I think it has to do with the pressure of losing… failure is not accepted… You are equivalent to trash if you lose (ability to fulfill your goals)… especially in my family… Everything you do is a test… from the time you are born to until now… You are like “Leonidas” for 300 killing the beast to prove himself… except it doesn’t end with one beast.
And, I think Indian men develop a fear of losing… when asking women out there is a good chance some will say no which is life. I think for some even one “no” would shatter their world… since they focus on perfection. For example: When I was in high school, I only applied for one college b/c that was the one I wanted.
June 19th, 2009 at 6:22 pm
Im an asian guy and i dont give a shit! haha. This video is funny as hell. Are people these days still believing this stereotype. Asian guys cant get white girls? Wow, Its sad how poeple argue and debate about what the media shows u instead of going out there and experiencing it yourself. Expecially if your not asian and you haven’t even met or encountered alot of asians in your life. As an asian american whos grew up here in the US most of my life with people of all ethnicity and backgrounds I see interracial couples all the time. And im fine with that. Alot if not most of my asian guy friends have dated white girls, even black and latino. And some of them are still with them to this day. Some of my asian girl freinds hav dated white girls. But whats weird to me is that i know more asian guys who are with white girls than asian girls with white. hell my best freind is asian and his mom is white. haha. I dont know where u guys live but up here in the North west its not uncommon to see asian guys with non-asian girls.
June 25th, 2009 at 5:08 am
Most asian guys look like little preteen girls.
June 26th, 2009 at 5:33 am
im a typical short nerdy lacking confidence asian man. Im in my 36, i’ve never had any friend let alone a girlfrend. When i walk by some asian men, they always keep looking at me. They know how i feel inside, but when i walk by some white men, they feel bad for me and not look. For example i walk toward a car parked. I know that once i am close to the car it will always leave afterwards. yeah yeah i know that in every race there are good and bad looking men. And being bad lloking and asian deal a double blow to me. But hey there are plus and minus for staying single, ie you have no worries about anythhing, you dont give a crap anymore, other than eat, sleep, wake up, play with yourself, dont even have to work just to maintain the bare necessities(welfare provide that). But there are minus, ie i might turn into a creepy pedophile, but once i try not to think any thing sexual because it might worsen my acne, i still maintain this theory that if i jack off alot or even attemp to do it, ill get these nasty zits that plagued me since forever. What about my physical and mental health, or yeah beeing the nerd i always am, i know its pretty bad the way i live like that so, i tent to exercise and but i always leave behind the mental side that is the social side like in the game the sims. When this side is lacking you know youll get depressed and uhhhh suicidal and stuffs that i, in my pathetic life, might consider once but not anymore (Exercise probably help alot in that department). So now im reading this page i dont event why, oh yeah thats because i came across a funny post on vancouver craiglist that poke fun at asian not getting white chicks and i like to read more and get more laugh LOL
asian man laughing at his pathetic life
June 26th, 2009 at 9:54 am
Who’s the white dude - Owen Wilson wannabe?
June 28th, 2009 at 5:26 am
Getting a White woman is as hard as getting a woman of any other race. You just have to look your best, have some ambition, be financially stable and have a life. Also, it’s a numbers game; the more white woman that tells you “no”, the closer you are to finding a white woman that will tell you “yes daddy”.
June 30th, 2009 at 5:32 pm
This is absolutely silly, Asian guys can date white girls, asian girls and any other race. It is a matter of choice and preference from both sides. However the western mainstream media is a powerful tool that can manipulate and brainwash stupid to mediocre people into believing the negative stereotype of asian men. Therefore, it is vital to save and protect our image by promoting good looking hot asian men into Television, Movies, and especially in the porn industry. The main reason why black guys are so confident, I believe is because they are in every fucking porn site.
We need more hot asian studs in the porn industry and that will inevitably boost the asian male image and that will make them better looking and marketable, when it comes to dating women. Asian Fellas use the POWER OF THE MEDIA!!!
June 30th, 2009 at 5:49 pm
To the asian guys out there who have low self esteem. If you want to be successful in life, dating, sport or whatever. You have to trust in your skills and capabilities and most importantly trust in yourself. That leads to self confidence. To be totally self sufficient and comfortable with yourself, even when others try to put you down will not affect you in any way. Be yourself and honestly express your self, so that others can see your genuine personality( women love that), don’t try to copy people and duplicate it because you will only feel emptyness inside. Dont copy the white man or the black man’s career, attitude, style, have your own unique asian style. Speak and understand your own oriental culture and tap into it!
July 10th, 2009 at 12:56 pm
I finally came to the conclusion why Asian women are stereotyped as submissive, obedient little sex fiends. Because, asian pornstars starring in porn movies in america are actually the ones reinforcing the negative stereotype. They are involved in disgusting demeaning acts like rape and bondage in scenes, they would personally claim that they love white guys and disrespect asian guys. These bitches sell their souls and body to buy their temporarily short term future. That has negatively impacted asian society as a whole, it has caused all sorts negative stereotypes of asian american. Think about it white males in america are the biggest consumers when it comes to porn b/c of the 60-70% of Americans are white. I believe these stupid consumers would be subconciously affected by the amount of content they are exposed to of asian women being portrayed as erotic sex dolls and they may see that as reality.
Asian men need to step up their game, and try their best to get in the porn industry and prove to these white men and black men that they don’t have small dicks and are just as sexually desirable. A big dick doesn’t mean shit, b/c in reality it hurts the girls vagina and may cause it to bleed, its how you use it. Asian cocks are average in size but they have one of the hardest cocks.
We must fight back ,we have stayed silent way too long!!! My advice is Asian women should step out of the porn industry or do scenes with only Asian men.
July 15th, 2009 at 3:06 am
The weirdest thing in the video is that the Indian (does anybody say East Indian anymore?) chap isn’t considered Asian.
Other than that I’d say this video did get a little tedious and seemed like it was trying too hard to be funny.
And you must be kidding if you think you can control the pr0n industry.
August 14th, 2009 at 3:30 am
Excellent video…keep the good work!
August 26th, 2009 at 1:44 pm
now everyone can have an Asian girlfriend, just make your current g/f “Asian” here’s how
http://japansugoi.com/wordpress/how-to-talk-and-act-like-a-japanese-girl/
September 1st, 2009 at 5:50 am
Lol! That was hilarious :}
They could have been better actors though.
September 1st, 2009 at 12:02 pm
I think its funny! I don’t find it offensive at all despite being a sub continental girl… because, honestly, I have no problem getting guys, including east asians (like my current boyfriend). Neither do my siblings. We’re all confident and I don’t think its misconstrued as arrogance. People generally like us and we’re considered attractive. Our personalities aren’t conducive to a lot of racism (in fact, I haven’t had a single real incident of explicit racism since I was 5).
Then again I suppose for sub continentals we don’t look particularly ethnic… even my really dark brown little brother doesn’t have particularly “sub continental” characteristics. I have a funny feeling we’re a mixture of all racial clusters if you look down the ancestral line. Having said that I’ve known a couple of ethnic looking girls who get a lot of attention from an array of people.
I’m not saying racism doesn’t exist, but I think I’m really glad to live in a place where it isn’t so prevalent. Ps my asian boyfriend is the hottest guy ever!!
September 2nd, 2009 at 5:08 am
Asian girls know that they can attract potentially pedophile white males with their under-developed bodies. It’s a relationship of power, the power of Asian girls over white guys.
September 14th, 2009 at 5:10 pm
only the ugly loser asian women that’s unwanted by Asian guys goes out with white ugly loser guys. and those ugly loser white guys are unwanted by white women. That’s why white guys need to pass out the green card to get pussies. What a shame!
September 22nd, 2009 at 6:59 pm
I am an Asian guy, 20 years old, a true Vietnamese and never think of dating white ladies.
I don’t know which type of Asian guys you are talking about. If it is an Asian immigrant to United States, it may be different than a native Asian boy. I have spent 17 years in my native country before moving to US and then China to study. While I do not have any disgusts for my race, I have to say White men are, just like White women, very beautiful, very proportional. I have studied the David sculpture and could not resist saying I admire the beautitude that being bestowed on European peoples. Many white men who are my friends are not that ideal as David, but their face features, their noses, eyes, lips and jaws are really aesthetically attractive. Don’t get me wrong that I am gay, it is just my nature to enjoy beautitude.
I have seen many white men being very great in their bodies and their souls. Treating the ones they love with great respect and great share of familial responsibility, they indeed make great impression on me and propel me to improve myself. In Eastern Asia, especially in Vietnam, males are not too attached to family, and usually do not take part in houseworks. This leaves the burden to Asian women who had to sacrifice their whole lives and careers to nurture the children as well as the well-beings of the family. Realising such a feature in a typical Vietnamese family, I have understood why Japanese ladies, and then East Asian ladies enjoy dating white men. Many women in my country, including friends of my mom told me that their white husbands are very gental, tender and responsible.
Here, in Vietnam, many problems with males are: alcoholism, family violence, bad influence on children,… In a middle family, such a problem is not quite common, but because the middle-class in Vietnam did not expand as much the size as in developed country, women fell to be victims of violence and love-cheats. They usually have to play the role of a medieval lady, nursing children and at the same time taking care of their own careers. It is not surprising to see a large portion of ladies run after white men, who, polished by media and Hollywood, suppose to be a better tree for them to lean on. I totally understand these sort of Asian women. I do think that Eastern Asian society must give more social freedom and fairness to women, as they have already endured biological inequalities (bearing children, being more vulnerable to violence due to health,…)
But many Asian gentlemen are very educated just like their White counterparts. They are “nerdy”, have a strong respect for women and are nearly freed of racism. They are indeed very attractive.
Anyhow, I am too young for a complete conclusion. Methinks, people tend to fear dating somewhat outside their cultural spheres. In Asia, it must be about parents’ attitude and such. This, pluses their shyness may be the reason why we see more Asian females with White men than vice versa?
I am a Classicist, a type of guy who enjoy classical values such as bravery, chivalry, humbleness, respectfulness. I am exciting in learning any other cultures along with mine, hopefully someday a White lady may find me suit her
September 29th, 2009 at 10:16 am
To Ann (June 27th, 2008 at 12:03 pm):
Obviously, you’ve done enough to show you are a racist.
Being white does not give us the right to mock the differences of others. It looks like you’ve been dumped by some Asian (Pakistani?Indian?Iraki?Korean?Chinese?Japanese?) before and the bitterness lingered.
Open your little mind a bit more. Attraction does not come just from the outside but what is inside, and from the looks of it, you are rotten… You make us white look bad.
October 4th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
The video was kinda boring. I know it wasnt to be serious but it does show insecurity. I am a Japanese Canadian male born in Vancouver bc Canada. I have only dated white women..lol so what is this, that asian men cant get white women? Most people are so drowned in todays media that it makes their decisions for them, they think what they hear. I dont want to sound too high on myself…. but I am a very goodlooking japanese guy. I am probably the best looking asian guy ever..lol. And I can get any race of girl…. whenever I want. If you are not confident then you sit out… period. The video also proves my point that people think what they hear! The Asian guys are brainwashed by the media themselves…. so they made a insecure asian video. Too funny.
October 6th, 2009 at 12:53 pm
I am a 23 year young Chinese guy. 5.10, 160 lbs, and good looking enginnering student at UCLA. I like European girls particullary Nordic girls. Norway, Swden. I also like Italian girls.
I am a totally Sell OUT who can NEVER go back to Asian any more. Oh, please my Buhhda help me.. I am totally GONE!!!!!!!!!
Dont laugh at me, but it is true. If your mother only date Fat, old, short, or ugly white guy. Her son will turn into me. But that is ok. Once I get my Master degree, I will FUCK wild, I am dead serious. I can imagine myself marrying a Scandanivian girl and have lots of kids. lol
October 19th, 2009 at 2:35 am
Seriously I can get a white girl.
My real problem is how to marry a virgin white girl.
Some white virgin female, please call me.
I mean it.
I gotta go to church to find some virgin white girls.
Bless me
Dexter
October 22nd, 2009 at 9:03 am
this movie is totally fucked up!
October 22nd, 2009 at 6:35 pm
Hi there, im from Australia and im an asian guy (15 years).
WOW!! i did not know how difficult that an asian guy cant pick up chicks in U.S.
Im from Australia and im typical geek (glasses, few pimples, braces) as almost 90% of asians guys in Australia, and hearing you guys saying it is very difficult i just dont buy that at all. I dont believe it because (this might sound fruity but) i was shopping with my mother, and i saw a group of girls 5-7 asian and white sitting around a table in the food court area, i walked pass them and they called out to me to come to them, i was shocked that all of them was interested in me. If my mother wasn’t there i would’ve just gone to the girls and started to chat with them.
But hey, thats whats in australia right now, over populated girls and not enough guys. YES!! for me, so any way don’t sit at home and dream the girls u could’ve dated, you guys can do it, JUST BE CONFIDENT!!!! lol.
October 27th, 2009 at 2:31 pm
im vietnamese. 24yo. 5′9 dark 140lbs. ive only dated vietnamese girls .vietnamese are the only ones i prefer. theyre beautiful in everyway. all my nonasian friends would love an asian girl. I dont see whats going on here. you guys need to come down new orleans where we have some pure bred countryass asian girls. Where asian girls are busty like white girls. white girls are sexy as hell but when it comes down to it i will only date a vietnamese girl. only time i prefer white girls is when im watching porn and fapping off to them. Only because their arent any good americanize asians on there. only the bushy anime type asians. So white girls win by default in the porn area. lol
October 27th, 2009 at 11:22 pm
Hi, I am asian too, I’m a Filipino. I read all these comments first before I watched the video. I nearly got carried away by the hatred of some other comments. Personally, I don’t find this offensive. I think it is meant to be comic, nothing serious. Maybe some people got offended before “race” is a very sensitive issue. But I did find it funny especially the Indian guy…
October 29th, 2009 at 4:16 am
what to say…I m white, and I think asian boys are the best!!!!!
November 19th, 2009 at 7:00 am
It could just be the culture of where you particularly live. I’ve lived in NYC for centuries. Everywhere I look White Girls are treated like GODS by the magazine industry, media, and employment sector. That’s probably why A lot of people, not just asians, want to intermix and date white girls (Blacks, Latinos, and whites).
If you really want white girls you must find a way to be financially wealthy. Somehow, some shape somewhere you must be making money and be powerful.