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Why Asian Guys Can’t Get White Girls
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Some students at UC San Diego made this 15 mins long video, explaining why asian guys really can’t get white girls. Its really hilarious and original. The first half maybe a bit boring but the second half is the funny part. 1 videoclip after the jump. |
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August 6th, 2006 at 10:25 am
haha the ‘text’ on that assian guy’s t-shirt so funny….. White man doesn’t understand
October 28th, 2006 at 8:46 pm
That was long and boring. It doesn;t get any better and it takes a long time to get there.
October 29th, 2006 at 12:21 pm
i agree. it’s boring and really not true.
white girls do love asian guys. ^^
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February 17th, 2007 at 4:23 pm
Ha! This video is a good example of why Asian guys can’t get girls. They think that they’re smart and witty, but they’re really just nerdy and boring.
March 13th, 2007 at 2:03 pm
HAHAHA thankyou
to whoever made this
hahahaa!
it brightened my month/year
April 2nd, 2007 at 9:11 pm
coooooooooooooool wang i love you ha ha ha indians r the gurus of all.
July 18th, 2007 at 7:21 am
how lame, matt cheung and philip wang both went to my high school (my grade as well)…damn, i feel ashamed i ever knew’em.
September 8th, 2007 at 12:11 pm
I AM AN ASIAN GIRL!!!! So my perspectives on this…
1) I do NOT like hairy guys.
2) I just don’t like that most Asian guys have the slanted eyes and the “Bobby Lee” body.
3) As for the skinny Asian guys, they can be hot. Look at Jae Joong from DBSK. THOSE type of Asian guys are ALWAYS laid, you betcha.
4) The skinny type with no hair ain’t so bad after they groom their eyebrows and MAYBE go blonde. =D And grow their hair longer.
5) I dunno. Personally, when I talk to white and asian guys, I relate more to the white one. Dunno why. But maybe that’s just cause he was blonde and seemed more open.
So maybe it’s not even a white/asian thing at all. Perhaps it is the “look”. If you want to get a girl, you need to stop trying to control things, don’t be so pushy, and be gentle. Plus, treat her like a person and moderated voice levels are good too. =D
My $0.02 cents on that subject.
November 1st, 2007 at 3:49 pm
I haven’t seen so much ham onscreen since Miss Piggy.
And oh - the reason you can’t get a girl, Asian OR white, is because you’re fruits.
December 22nd, 2007 at 12:28 pm
LOL>>>>>>>>>>>what a racist, typical stereotype video this is and the sad thing is it’s done by a couple of stupid ass chinese guys who have no clue. just because they can’t get laid, don’t go and stereotyping the entire asian race like the racist american media does by predominantly showing negative nerdy, weak images of asian men. that would be like me only showing fat, balding, pasty skinned, hairy white, child molesting, beer guzzlin, rifle toting white boys!!! and trying to represent it as FACT. yeah there are definitely a lot of those white boys but are you trying to tell me that in general this is true of white boys?? of course not. in the same way, you cant generalize and say racist stereotypes like the things these clueless ass chinese guys are saying just to get some hits on You Tube by pandering to inwardly racist white boys who love to see this type of negative stuff of asians. i personally have no trouble dating any race of women, including white. i get approached at various places by white women, asking me questioins about this or that. whether at the gym, club, supermarket or at a coffee shop. so people, lets stop all this ignorant, nonsense of stereotyping various groups!!!!!!!!! this is so racist and ridiculous!!!
December 27th, 2007 at 10:34 am
…it was a joke, you lot of idiots. I’m Asian, and I’m not the least offended - in fact, my Asian friends recommended watching this video because they thought it was hilarious.
December 28th, 2007 at 4:40 pm
fucking dumb ass
search up people like gackt
December 30th, 2007 at 1:21 am
I want my time back.
December 31st, 2007 at 3:47 pm
this is all really very silly.
i love this video. its hilarious but i dont think it was meant to be taken seriously.
with that being said im going to put my two cents in.
its not that white guys are more attractive than asians. its all about preference.
im a white female and i would date an asian guy sooner than i would date a white guy.
idk white guys just dont do it for me. and you wouldnt believe what shit i get for it too. i mean seriously. why does it freaking matter? i just think that asian guys are more attractive, smarter, and they treat females better. and im saying that in general. i really dont want to offend anyone. white guys are usually more arrogant and they go for what they want and from my experience asian guys are shy and i think its actually really adorable..as long as you can manage to bring them out of their shell.
i’ve also heard it said that only ugly white girls wil date asians and i heard it from a white guy and then his white friends agreed. that is the dumbest thing i ever heard. and it offended me because i know im not ugly. psh. anyway. bottomline is if you like someone no matter what their skin color you should go for it.
December 31st, 2007 at 9:40 pm
lol man its so cool im Mexican so i think so the white guys arent the only one that could be cool and Hot
January 4th, 2008 at 10:30 pm
i think all of you people who get offended should relax, im an asian guy and im not offended, i thought it was funny! and hey, it ends with us knowing that it doesnt matter weather you are black, indian, asian or white! its your confidence and that you actully dare to go talk to girls
January 14th, 2008 at 6:29 am
haha i am come from korean and my girls fren is white swedish
important thing is the we are the world.
dont be a monkey brain person.
January 17th, 2008 at 9:37 am
You can obviously tell I’m chinese from my name! I just have to say, it was a funny video, and it was kinda dumb, but spoke my mind completely! I’m a chinese american guy, who is single. I am shy, you got that right, but yeah, the only girls that do like me that are white(no offense) do lack in the looks department -_-.
January 19th, 2008 at 2:45 am
son of a bitch to the guy who has released this silly racist video
Who said that asian guys couldn´t get any white girls?
the stereotype sucks ! In fact I have ever fucked three german girls and one polish girl. I got them all at that time! we had a nice relationships with each other.
and Iam asian guy.
February 1st, 2008 at 11:22 pm
Stereotypes, thats why and if you are an Asian dude that takes care of himself, has self confidence and social skills, girls will like you. Asian guys in Japan, China and Taiwan, and even in the USA have their heads in books a lot (social pressure). European, black, and Latin guys don’t and I have seen all of them with Asian babes here in L.A.. If you learn how to be a bit sophisticated and gain a few social skills….there it is.
Yeah, me too I am Asian half raised in HK half in the USA and at 29 I can tell you I have been with white, Asian and black girls. You need to “bring” it! Too much “Hollywoodization!” I tell ya!
February 4th, 2008 at 10:33 pm
well the asian guy in this video is a total cutie. the white guy isnt.-ugly duh. i hate this stupid white-guys-are-more-attractive-than-asian-guys-crap!! it’s not the color of the skin that defines beauty. there’s nothing attractive about pasty skin. these whites look down on Asians but look who’s staying under the sun to look a little brownish.
February 4th, 2008 at 10:52 pm
my ex is white but id love to go out with that Asian guy in the video. he’s hot.
sure white guys are good-looking but not all. there are as many ugly white guys as there are asians. asians are special.
the thing though with asian guys is that they themselves admit that white men look better than them like theyr some sort of superior or something. how about feel superior for a change.
February 14th, 2008 at 2:24 pm
I think we’ve all known someone from another race or been somewhere other then your own country growing up, whether they were negative experiences or positive experiences. Those experiences reflect as you get older to who you feel comfortable with. I’m an average looking asian guy (though some of my white friends say I’m good looking, I don’t know if that’s true, ha ha), and I live in a city where I see some interracial couples. Most of the couples I see are white men/asian women, and sometimes I see asian men/white women. Of the asian men/white women couples, sometimes the white girl would stare at me, and I’m not sure if it’s because her bf is asian or if she grew up with some asian relatives or has friends who are asian or just curios about the asian culture, but it seems to me that people are more open and understanding to someone of another ethnicity and culture just based on their experiences.
Yes, I think this video is funny, but it was funny for all the wrong reasons.
February 18th, 2008 at 6:14 am
lol, so funny to see my old hs classmates all over the internet
February 19th, 2008 at 12:11 am
As a black and white mix asian girls have a been a hard challenge. Latin & black girls love me but i cant get no play from a asian.
February 19th, 2008 at 8:52 am
Actually, now when I think about it, I’m not sure if this video is funny. Gleaming the Cube.
February 20th, 2008 at 4:13 am
I think this waz rly hilarious!! Well done Phillip!! And to all those ppl that keep saying its stupid, Heloo! It was a joke! Stop taking life so serously! When u go to the movies and the white or black guy gets killed or watver do u complain about it and think its coz of the race? Well… if u do, i feel sorry for u. Im white and i like asian guys. There are other white girls and they like asian guys. But ofcoarse the mijority of asians dating whites are asain girls dating white guys. But its not because of the apearance!
February 21st, 2008 at 3:33 pm
Don’t get me wrong, I’m asian and wasn’t offended but I thought it could’ve been funnier. The only characters I thought was funny was the blond haired guy and the Indian student. I like the Indian student when he loses his accent.
February 28th, 2008 at 9:09 am
I remember blowing off white girls before lol, she wasn’t ugly, I just felt like doing it lol. I think it’s just cos Asians are shy, it’s ok for girls cos guys are suppose to go after girls, but not the other way around.
February 28th, 2008 at 9:43 am
That Asian chick at 8:46, I’ll take her over any white girl lol, the one at 9:10 and 9:40 is nice too… How come there ain’t any hot Asian chicks in my school? Anyway job well done lol, I had fun watching that.
February 29th, 2008 at 11:22 am
Ugly, nerdy, fat, ugly no girl getting guys come from all walks of life…I know some really hot and totally cool asian dudes. Yes I’m white so what, I find guys cute from every race, people are people. Are all white guys hot and do all white guaiys cool? NO. Are all asian guys ugly and “can’t get white girls.” NO. My ex was a total Thai hottie and let me tell you he has girls from all races always crawling over him and he’s currently with a very pretty blonde girl now.
March 2nd, 2008 at 12:41 pm
This video is quite disturbing and I dont know whether to laugh or cry. I love Indian guys and Asian guys, especially nerdy ones are hot! I am strongly interested in different cultures so that does it. My preference though is Indian guys but nerds of all races or culture can be really hot tho’. Hey from 12:27 it looked like he was about to say “Yeah, c’mon baby” lol.
March 16th, 2008 at 1:40 pm
The guy who made this video obviously has not met me….I’ve had yellow fever since 2nd grade and I don’t plan on it subsiding any time soon……
Call me!
Hehehe <3
March 20th, 2008 at 7:40 am
So true, it’s damn true!
March 20th, 2008 at 7:41 am
Girls are racist!
March 27th, 2008 at 1:45 am
Both sides decide the very unbalanced situations or outcomes.
So, I personally think that female whites who are married to non-whites are generally more respectable than many
(if not most of) Asian females who are married to whites.
I am married for 16 years to my wife who is definitely a NATURAL Chinese beauty like her elder sister. (She said
her sister is much prettier. I don’t agree with here totally.) I hate her using makeups especially heavy makeup
s which destroys her natural beauty. It was her natural features and personality that make me crazy about her. 1
5 years ago, I was told by her that I was not good looking. I was like my father who many people said to be hand
some when he was young. I had some European features (high and straight nose, sunken and round eyes, and oval fa
ce) but small mouth (which would be great for a classic Chinese beauty). But my skin is yellow (slightly whitish
). A roomate once told me that I was handsome like a westerner, and my wife’s mom and grandma said I was good lo
oking too. It was actaully her mom who helped me to get her heart eventually, though I was a dirty poor graduate
student and her family was quite well-off. I really had little to offer but promises and dependability. To have
a mother-in-law like a mom is a great blessing to me. (Don’t take me wrong. I am very independent throughout my
life. I left my parents at 6 for years with my widowed grandpa. I lived with my parents for only 13 years.) Whe
n I was young, I actually HATE my having sunken eyes and my face shape, and was wondering where I got those stra
nge features. It took many years for me to get used to them. It took a while for my very picky wife to accept my
look also,.
She and her sister were both hotly sought after back in China. She had many opportunities, unlike me. When she,
her sister, and I went out back in China, I heard females telling them how pretty they were. That was very unty
pical of Chinese. We both look much younger than we actually are. Sometimes, people about my age or younger her
e in US say things like “you young people..”, which is really awkward. We eastern Asians look much younger than
whites in general.
But having light-skin is valued in Asia. I was brought up with that value. For many years, I don’t like my yello
w skin. Now I like healthy (shiny) skins but not a particular color. I actually don’t like too light skin or too
white skin. I like people who are natural and healthy, which is why I don’t think that many people on TVs are r
eally beautiful. I often wondering what their natural looks are really like. One’s look can be so much artificia
lly altered these days that we look so much different from our ancestors, and from our opposite sex.
Many eastern Asian kids grown up in US dress or talk strangely, for they have lost many good things from their t
radtions but pick up some unnatural things to them. Because of the physical differences between the eastern Asia
ns and European stocks, some western things (like some dresses, makeups, styles, gestures, poses, and facial exp
ressions etc) are just not looking great on them. But of course, many whites may find them very adorable, like t
hey want to eat much modified Chinese foods here.
March 28th, 2008 at 3:18 pm
i love this video! i’m asian, 21 years old male, gay. the video does not seem like the usual uploaded vidoes that have no bearing. this one seems to be nicely edited and not amateur
Personally, i like white boys the most. I do like people in other races including my own (and that asian guy in that video is handsome) but good looking white boys get my attention the most. Its not their skin, its their facial features that i really find hot - nice nose, nice eyes. The only thing i dnt like about whites is their skin because it gets easily freckled and wrinkled under the sun, and they tend to be hairy. But other than that, i find the white race most attractive. Perhaps because they are so exotic for me. i dnt see many of the here in the philppines. . I like asian men because of their skin- porcelein smooth fair complexion like mine, and we are not hairy.
among whites, mostly i like those from the US, UK, Germany
April 3rd, 2008 at 6:45 am
I am a Japanese guy, and I usually dont have a problem getting white, black, or latin girls.
I dont think its about race. Its about how you look and how you act.
There are usually more ugly asian guys than good looking ones. Thats why you guys think ASIAN guys dont get white girls. But if you look good then it doesnt matter if you are asian or black or indian. Start taking care of your looks guys.
Now a days its getting harder to get girls for me because I am getting little chubby (lack of exercise) and because I work at home I stopped caring about my clothes… So its getting little tough.
When I was in highschool I was fit like crazy and took care of my look more than anyone in my school, so I was getting approached by whites, blacks, latinas, and asian chicks. No problem.
Looks matter. Race doenst matter.
Gotta exercise again!!!!!!
April 4th, 2008 at 1:37 pm
duude, this video is funny(=
asians are the hottest race on earth, i swear.
i think white guys are UGGGLYY, and i’m white (russian), california native.
it’s just, idk i grew up around alot of asian people and consider asian guys the hotter guys ^___^ plus, i love asian culture. so, this video is just a joke. don’t take it seriously o__o;
April 18th, 2008 at 1:28 pm
Its just a movie! Not to be taken so seriously, btw im asian..
May 21st, 2008 at 8:28 pm
man im a cambodian guy from orange county…this video goes for those wimpy weird asian guys…. theres not many cambodian guys around this area but me….not to be conceited but i’ve dated all kinds of girls…all different races….its just looks personality and style….not about race…some people still stick with “their people” because theres mainly one thing….racism…
May 21st, 2008 at 8:29 pm
oh and fellas im sorry i didnt mean to put it that way…its just ehhh…kinda hard to explain but like i said looks… personality and style….
June 4th, 2008 at 1:10 am
I would just like to say as a very white female that race is not an issue, there are cute guys from every race, personality is what really matters because there are also assholes from every race. The only problem I have ever had with asian males is that they are sometimes raised to do so well in school and are so smart that I feel like they may not like me because I am of average intellegence and I may not have a chance. The main issue I have with cute guys from any other race is that if I see a black guy hanging out in a crowd of black guys or a asian guy who is always in a crowd of all asians I think that maybe he is racist and I don’t dare to talk to him. Life is tough isn’t it? I sometimes wish all people were born color blind. It would all just be less complicated except for sunburns. I burn so easy haha. Need to see when I start turning into a lobster so that I can find shade.
June 6th, 2008 at 1:09 pm
Oh..come on..You guys already know everything. The problem is not the color, you stupid!! Every people say that doesn’t matter with color of skin,right? But, do you guys know what people really care about??
The most things people concern about race is the “feature” !! Understand?? not the color!! Even if you have
totally different skin color from others as long as you are looking good, you will never have any problems with
pretty white woman.
Remember!! not the color…Non of normal black people ain’t got blue eyes, ain’t got beautiful hair, ain’t got nice nose, ain’t got beautiful tits,but how they look like..that’s all.. About Asian? Jesus…I don’t even want to mention about it.. It sometimes worse than black for white women..
There is always winner and loser for every race…I tell you guys this…Only winner can have white woman
(a beauful woman, at least normal ,not a fat, not a maniac.) and people who really tried hard to get beautiful white woman can finally get them.. There is no easy way to get a woman(Especially white young woman) for us(black,Indian,Asian,Arabian,etc…) That’s because white people think that they are the best in the world now since ????( I’m not sure since when) Look at the world!! Look at the media(TV, Movie, MTV,Magazine,Newpaper,etc) around us, what do you see from them? White people are control this planet at the moment.. I’m sure that won’t be last until next century,but it’ll last until I die at least…
June 11th, 2008 at 10:59 pm
Hey my name is sam im an indian from singapore…. welll i m quite distorted by this video that indian guys have difficulty in getting asian girls.(chinese.) its totally crap trust me all my mates and friends are chinese here here..many chinese women marry indian guys..some for money & some for love believe me
June 13th, 2008 at 2:18 am
We’ll I’m a vietnamese guy, but I can pass as a philipino. The video was funny, the title got alot of responds which is good if your advertising or promoting a brand, in this case a message. Me, personally, I can’t seem to get a HOT white girl. I get constant look at from all types of color females but they are not, in my eyes, consider HOT. I guess I’m not that attractive, ;( . Truth is, you have to show the female your existence and your sense of style, don’t be rude or too cocky. And if you make her smile or laugh…..bingo! You got a good chance my friend. As far as looks wise. Theres as much as good looking asian as there is white. In some way, I believe the MEDIA can control alot of what people want and feel. There is very little or none asian male porn on white female (not that I watch alot of it, but through discussion from friends and classmate). Asian guys are viewed as not so sexy or in downed with the ding dong) We’re viewed as book nerd and/or Kung fu master or something. IF ANYONE GOT A PROBLEM WITH ANYTHING, JUST SEE THE MEDIA…..THEY GOT THE POWER TO BRAINWASH ALOT OF US. be strong and fight……….OR GET YOUR OWN TV STATION….THAT WOULD BE COOL.
June 13th, 2008 at 3:06 pm
Guys…don’t think about how we are. Just think about what they(western women) want..
June 17th, 2008 at 4:15 am
When most Asian guys say that its hard dating white girls they mean that its hard dating white girls that are as PRETTY as the Asian girls they can get. Its not hard for Asian guys to date white girls but theres a standard. Why would an Asian guy date a normal white girl when they can date a much hotter Asian Girl.
Dont ask me why Asian guys can get more hot Asian girls then hot white girls because im not sure. Maybe its the lack of representation in movies, magazines, music.. I dont know. But thats just the way it is.
For white guys and black guys its completely opposite. I think that we can all agree that white and black guys find asian girls exotic and different. And to them dating something “different” or “exotic” is beautiful regardless of what she really looks like or what her personality is. Some of the asian girls they date have a hard time speaking english too. But again it goes back to as dating something exotic and different so they dont mind the accent.
Most Asian guys wont date a white girl just to date one. If she is hot and the white girl is into him then yes they’ll date. You probably wont see so many asian guys dating white girls as you see white/black guys dating asian girls but when you do see a white girl with an asian guy shes usually pretty good looking.
Im stereotyping with my last statement but this is my observation.
June 21st, 2008 at 10:30 am
Whites are the dominant race in the world at the moment (thanks to the USA), which often leads white people to be more arrogant than people of other races, causing them to look down on anyone who is non-white. This might be a reason for the inferiority complex non-whites (e.g. Asians and blacks) feel: they have been looked down on for so long by whites (due to the fact that whites are currently the dominant race) that they actually start subconsciously believing they are inferior, when it is not necessarily the case. Whites have come a long way from their racist shell, but still need lots of improvement, including elimination of the traditional stereotypes of black and Asian cultures on television, which are generally not true anymore. If whites can learn to bring themselves down to the level of Asians and blacks, and live among them instead of over them, and if Asians and blacks can learn to bring themselves up to the level of whites, and learn to feel equal instead of inferior, then we will have made a significant step toward color blindness and true racial equality.
Unfortunately, due to human nature, this can never happen. Live with it.
June 25th, 2008 at 9:14 am
don’t subscribe to cable or satellite tellivision or watch mtv or vh1 anymore because there are no asians on those networks anyway and even if there are there usally acting like idiots reinforcing bad sterotypes athough the should change mtv to whites only mtv and with that said it would be wise not into the medias campaign of racial exploitation this is in my opion a twited version modern day nazisim. the i believe asian men should do everything they can to shield there own asian women from these white vampires who wish exploite them for various sexaual reasons and render the asian man extinct in the usa atleast by utilizing the media to desexulize the asian man the white man is already begining to stmulate this affect which is disturbing to me so better start opening your damn mouth and start speaking out for self and your race or destrored or will be watching stories about asian guys on the history channel. good luck and good bye. THE MENICE……………
June 27th, 2008 at 6:27 am
feel free to dabte my previous comment on you tube if you want im known as the menice although i haven’t sighned on to you tube yet which ive been trying to do but my computer won’t prosess me sighning up for a account if anyone could give any tips it would be a big help im usualy surfing asian guy white girl sites anyways to read other peoples opinons on the subject thanks the menice………..
June 27th, 2008 at 12:03 pm
Asian guys make me ill and I am a white woman. Why wouldn’t i date one? Of course, I am generalizing, but i have never found it not to be true. They are generally socially inept and creepy. Most are sexually obsessed and perverted…They are very low functioning on an emotional and spiritual level. They are not even particularly bright…They might be book smart and scientific in their approach, but generally lacking any depth of character. This video alone shows how superfical and emotionally shallow they are. They are weak, pathetic and not even physically attractive. I have asian guys throwing themselves at me all the time — for the simple reason that I am good looking. They don’t care that we have nothing in common and no mental, emotional, spiritual connection…All they see is — good looking woman, must try to get with…..They are stupid, clueless and basically cavemen. Who wants an emotionally stunted Asian guy? The childishness works with asian girls as some guys feel powerful with inadequate females. Asian guys make me sick. Stay with your own kind please. Thanks.
June 27th, 2008 at 12:44 pm
As an Asian male hailing from the great country of India. People constantly call me “Taj Mahal” or “That curry kid”. I also receive remarks about how my body odour smells of currys and lentils. I am quite small in structure and hairer than a camel. But this is the way I am, and I am beautiful in every single way and words cant bring me down, I am beautiful no matter what they say. Anyway to the story, I once saw a beautiful caucasian woman wering a “g-banger” and I could not keep my seedy eyes off it, I walked up to this woman couldnt stop staring, she turned around and said “you want this taj mahal?” and I got slapped but it didnt hurt. Later that night I followed her home and was quite upset at the remark of her calling me “Taj Mahal”, so this is what I did; I brought my boombox and I played “I am beautiful” by the lovely, seducitve, bootylicious Christina Aguleira and pumped it up in front of her place.
The nest thing I know, she popped her head out the window and said “your going to get it taj mahal curry licker” and the next thing I realize, a stocky built handsome asian guy to my suprise beat the crap out of me, and screamed “keep away from my woman you taj mahal curry licker”. It then at that moment, hit me harder than any bullet could, it was not the race or ethnicity mattered, it was being a hairly,smally,curry,taj mahal, and a sleaze bag.
And to this very day, I still question peoples remarks when they call me “taj mahal” or “that curry kid”, I mean seriously, Im not a temple.
-Apu Nahasapinanut
June 27th, 2008 at 2:48 pm
according to ann she is by far the most anti asian person that has left any comment on this site she is a prime example of how narrow minded a white women can be as they can use there race as weapon or prop to deamonize asians which she seems to find inferior she is nothing more than a spokesperson of the mainstream media and how they treat and view asians in general. although my last big comment was kind of crued i just wanted to shake things up a little bit and try give asians an idea of what there up against with the media and all the compition they have to contend with an what takeing no action at all could possibly mean as for ann’s comment it ought to be erased from this message board vile peice of crap ive ever read she has hardly no lick of knowledge as far im concerned probably a cross between an ape an parrot for all i know. se ya later the menice……………..
June 28th, 2008 at 2:19 am
First, I would start with I’m an Asian guy, who have been to United States for only three years. At first, I couldn’t even date a girl in U.S, coz I couldn’t speak english as well, girl was hot, I wasn’t cool enough. However, after I have been socialized with people (white, asian, black), I start exercise; get some muscle, hanging out with people. I don’t know why lately I have been approached by so many girls ( White, Asain, Black), So what? It doesn’t matter what race you are, If you want to date with anygirl, you have to work for her, try to get her. I’m telling you, now I’m doing fine, and definitely 3.9 student at U of M. So don’t be a dumb ass, just blame yourself, coz you’re asian, that’s why you can’t get white girl??? On the other hand, Anygirl, like a guy who is sensitive, cool, sweet, gentle, and especially rich. If you get that, I guarantee you will get one( any kind). And people please be positive, and good thing will happen!
July 1st, 2008 at 2:10 am
I am a white guy, married to a lovely Japanese woman. We met in Japan 21 years ago and have three beautiful children. I did not watch the video. I will say that from my experience, it does not matter what race a person is. Race is merely your DNA. It does not determine who you are as a person. Men who are sensitive and affectionate and treat a woman with respect will find a beautiful woman( inside and out). I agree that, unfortunately, Asian men have gotten an unfair reputation due to the media.
That being said, Men who have been raised in traditional Asian homes either in the states or in Asian countries, will probably have Asian values. Those values are, in general, very good, in my opinion. However, in many Asian cultures, marriage is viewed as an economic relationship. Western women and men have been raised on romantic fairy tales such as sleeping beauty, Cinderella, and literature such as Pride and Prejudice and Wuthering Heights. In other words, western women want, in general, a man to be “in love” with them. Asain cultures tend to teach men not to “fall in love” because it is a sign of weakness. I know this is a broad generalization and is not true for many individual Asian men. I am just saying that falling in love is viewed as ” feminine”., especially in Japan, where men are supposed to me strong and resolute. What makes some Western men so desirable is not their looks, but their willingness to admit that they are “in love” and give their heart to a woman, just as a woman gives her heart to man.
I know I am generalizing here. I admire Asian men. I would only say, as a word of advice, that in my opinion, women want a man to respect and adore them. Race does not matter.
July 5th, 2008 at 1:06 pm
I honestly think its the personality & what each individual likes/looks for in the other person. The world is changing and so are people. Thats why you see interracial relationships & such, but thats good!
July 6th, 2008 at 12:57 am
this is the world’s comment.
Would just like to point out that White domination of the world has nothing to do with the U.S.A.. whites have dominated the world since 1600’s, when europeans started colonization. Before the u.s. even was a powerfull nation.
the U.S. has only had influence in the past century..
July 7th, 2008 at 12:40 pm
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=311002825
This is my friend, she is with an Asian guy, she has dated with Chinese, Japanese and Korean. This video is sad and boring.
Most of my friends have no racism, my boyfriend is Haitian and I am Hispanic, so it’s not really a big deal.
(It’s not age, either…I think that guy she is engaged to is 40 years old, they are such a happy couple)
July 9th, 2008 at 6:46 am
mohamed man frome egypt leive in aswan city i have 29 old years im camera man want on for marrid like make good family and lik children i hope i can find
July 9th, 2008 at 11:00 am
This was soooo hillarious…
I dont know why this phenomenon is occurring but I also notice it here in Chicago.
I am Mexican, and I always see this happening. I’ve only dated one Mexican girl in my life.
Personally, I got bored. Yeah, she spoke my language and knew about my culture.
That’s boring.
For me I like variety. I love learning about diff. cultures, and I love that all races have different physical characteristics. Thats hot.
I’ve only dated one Asian girl. Its sad cuz they are hard to get.
For the Asian guys, don’t feel too left out. It’s true, you just have to try and try. There is at least one white girl out there out of like 3 Billion that is bound to wanna be your girl. Thats my approach to Asian girls. lol… just keep trying!
July 9th, 2008 at 10:47 pm
Want the real reason? Because the Asian girls are hotter than white girls. Generally. I know I’m being racist but sue me. I grew up in Australia where there’s roughly equal number of Asian/White. I’ve been out with 3 girls and all of them Asian because, to me, they’re hotter, have better personality.
July 14th, 2008 at 4:59 am
As another caucasion female, I am completely repulsed by Ann’s comments. To categorize several races into a single narrow-minded remark, simply evidences the extent of her ignorance. That being said, she is entitled to her opinion; therefore, I will simply provide my own thoughts.
Asian men can certainly date nonAsian females. My boyfriend is Vietnamese. I never thought twice about the fact that he is Asian, and I never wil question our relationship on that basis. We are very happy together. How did he “get” me? He simply approached me as opposed to automatically assuming that I would not be interested. Asian men, if you want a nonAsian girlfriend, simply have the confidence to approach one.
July 14th, 2008 at 11:47 am
It really depend on where you live. Is it an educated area? It is a small town or a large city. Is there a large University in the neighborhood. You get get the ideal. If you are an Asian guy who want to date White chicks, it is so much easier live in an enlighten area. It is really tough to do so in an area where there is social pressure against it. Not all community are equal and not all country are equal. I found in general, Canada and Australia, pretty cool to live in. Other countries have culture traits of racism. Just move to the area that make you happy.
July 15th, 2008 at 2:12 am
Ann is a RACIST with a big R.
July 15th, 2008 at 2:57 am
umm..anyone know where i can get that “white guys cant read ths” T-shirt??
July 15th, 2008 at 10:56 pm
Question: Will a girl like a guy that is shorter than her? or is taller guys more attractive?
Does white guys looks more handsome for white girls?
July 29th, 2008 at 1:30 am
Well this video was certainly a surprise, and I’m sure that Asian guys are not always so stereotype looking with their skinny body and being so nerdy. It seems that the rest of the other population of Asian isn’t really talking much nor care to read these because they are out there with more open minded and careless about what people would think about them if they dated outside of their race. It seems that only nerdy and stereotype of Asian guys step up and make videos because they always wondering how come they cannot get white girls to like them or probably hoping someone would think that they’re cute. I prefer to see a more realistic video of how Asian peoples are and none of these nerdy Asian guys. Although this video is funny, but its rather depressing to see those guys making a fool out of themselves and shoulda been more real and serious and coulda think outside the box before they even made this clip.
July 29th, 2008 at 3:06 pm
ahaa very funny,
but i go for asains instead 
btw in vietnamese 
yeaa 13 too! OH! LMAO. wow im like talking to myself 
ahahaa….
im not telling my age bcuz im a litto to young
somewhere around… IDK 13
so anyways who says an asain guy cant get a white girl? my friend (hes chinese) has got a white girl -_-
hey she isnt as pretty as yu think
and yeahh that ANN PERSON, is VERY RACIST, god,
i noe everything….. shes just jealous that no asain guy ever wanted her b4, sheshh ;P
and hey i dunt find white guys that attracting……. well maybe some that are superrr hot!!
in a way this vid is plain DUMB.
OPEN YURS EYES UP, !’
July 29th, 2008 at 4:00 pm
Why are white guys stealing all the asian girls? Too funny. So okay, Im asian and an engineer so right automatically nerdy. But not really well at least I would like to think. I have dated many races. Its just like Tim Duong said make them laugh. People like to hang out with people they can have fun with, its not about race. Why do asian guys not get white girls? Have you guys actually tried talking to them. I tend to date more asian girls because I hang around more asians, but white girls are actually more friendly than asian girls from my experience. Dont be shy. Just be cool and nice. If you want an asian girl to like you it may not be a good thing to be too aggressive, asian girls tend to be kind of shy, be subtle. Oh by the way if you are an engineer, do not go into detail about your work, unless she brings it up (very unlikely). Because if you do, man you going home alone.
July 30th, 2008 at 5:34 am
LOLZ OMG! That was hilarious!!
…
But I’m a white girl and I LOVE asian guys
I think they’re gorgeous.
Especially japanese guys. GAHHHH .>
July 30th, 2008 at 5:36 am
What i been seeing so far from the past experience of dating asian girls is that their parent are very strict and have high standard of who their daughters are going out with. The guy has to have a doctor degree or an engineer which is so typical. The title doctor engineer is because they make money and yes its all about the money. But i find much easier to date a white girl and expressing your feeling toward her is simply much easier actually. The majority of their parents are more down to earth and they do not expect much besides keeping their daughters safe and happy. This is my opinion and i’m not saying that white are any better than asian. Both have their up and down. Asian girls however do love to play games more and it takes very long for them to actually love you, and white girls express their love more independently and freely however they will be more likely to break up with you. But asian girls do tend to cry more and take a bit more crap before she finally move on. Not to mention it is rarely that when you break up with an asian girl you’ll end up being just friends, she will probably either hate you or just ignore you but rarely will be your friend. However a with a white girl you would have more chance being her friend after a break up. because when it comes to these sensitive feelings in a relationship…again this is just my opinion, asians peoples have it more deep. Oh yea and you may want to check out those asian drama movies and especially those korean drama such as ( Winter Sonata, Stair Way To Heaven, and Summer Scent.
August 1st, 2008 at 3:15 pm
Asian girls wont give your their heart? Of course not, because usually if they do, they truly give it you. No more games, they are literally yours, so to speak. Korean drama? They take ideas from a pool of common thoughts, so lame, its not real, life does not work like that. Lets cut all the BS. Its simple, if you are good looking you will get girls, if you are not, you will not. If you have money it increases your chances. It is not about race. You don’t think I know what I am talking about? I wasn’t a computer engineer my whole life. I was not programming at the age of six. High school popularity, whatever, had all that. No I did not go to college right away, was hmm lets say “troubled child”. But I realized high school was a bubble, its nothing, the successful is what is cool later. I know both ends of the spectrum. I live in Los Angeles, its mostly about looks but isn’t that what it’s always about at first glance? Personality is a second trait. If a person hits on you, you think you’ll say “OMG he/she was so ugly but damn he/she had a great personality”. You would never give that person a chance to find out. Looks is not everything, yes if you get to know them. Through a friend’s friend at best. But a significant part of life is about damage control. If you lack something then highlight some of your positives (no one is perfect). Like make up. Highlight your best features. Asian guys lack confidence? Really? As a korean growing up in LA pretty much my whole life, my pride has no bounds, but its about how you present yourself. Life is simple. Why do guys want to make money, 99% of the times, its for sex/ego. If you are young and male, then have potential, you have to consider this (the starving artist, sky is the limit), women look at that too. If you do not meet that potential they will leave. Why do women want success? So they can keep a man (probably get destroyed for this, but its the truth). Women are practical. They are not governed by illogical acts, women later, hormones control them, like young men, but it’s for reproduction, the biological clock, like I said practical. Successful men get women. Women like successful men (confidence/security). No successful person is completely insecure. Trust me I did not read from a book and think “oh this is life???”, I absorb/assess peoples opinions. If you are chasing money forget it. You have it wrong. Just be the best at what you do, whatever it is, money, power, sex will come to you, for women and men. Why would someone not pay you if you are the best, and along comes money, power and sex. Why make it complicated set one goal. You just need to think and adjust. But isn’t that what humans are known for, adaptation?
August 1st, 2008 at 8:48 pm
I’m 17 years old and Asian.
And I don’t really want a white girl. Its not a priority. Its not a “problem” that needs to be fixed. Dating white chicks shouldn’t be something that you rack your brain about.
Lol. Maybe its because I live in Canada but in Toronto, I’ve grown around Asians as much as I’ve grown around everything else. And I’m really mostly attracted to Asians in general. I don’t even like most white chicks. And I’m fairly tall too and I also play soccer so I guess I’m not your typical Asian. I have a multitude of friends of varying ethnicities and I enjoy being around my friends. The media has been a driving force in my attitudes towards people but I’ve been vaguely aware of it and have had the luxury of being around a very diverse group of people. Soo..
Why should I go out of my way to get a white chick?
Its like they’re special, coveted or something. Its not like I envy those Asian chicks who date white guys. I don’t care either way. Thats their decision. I’m happy knowing I can date who I want and dating a white chick has never been an issue. Its never been a concern. If it happens, it happens but I’m not going to sit here and say, ” I <3 me sum whyte chicks, I want it now! “. Because I don’t. It almost seems like White Fever rather than Yellow Fever for some people. From my perspective, some Asian chicks only date white guys anyway. I have a few non-white / non-asian friends that would like to date an Asian chick. But do they get them?
No. Because some Asian chicks date white guys like its going out of style. Like europe is running out of steam. I dye my hair every once and awhile (I’ve tried all kinds of colors), but damn, I don’t wear shell necklaces and try to look like a surfer blonde guy. Some chicks do that crap and it just signifies how insecure they are. Experimenting is fine but not when it tips over the edge and your the blondest black-haired Asian I’ve ever met who dates the blonde white guy who is fucking the blonde white chick across the street. I mean, sure, blame the media and liberalism and all that jazz..but at the end of the day..when you get home. When your dye fades. When your still living in your house past 18. When your eating rice everyday. Your still Asian and its awesome to be Asian.
I have my girlfriend, who is Chinese and the girlfriend before her was half Chinese/Viet/Afro-Carribean. So, I’m happy but I’m vouching for Asian guys who are insecure at times. And its normal. But damn, you don’t have to date a white chick to feel *anything*.
August 7th, 2008 at 9:45 pm
Please kindly tell me your experiences about european girl
August 26th, 2008 at 12:16 am
the reason why a lot of Asian guys can’t get any girl from any other race is PROBABLY because many of them are too laid back, or they just aren’t that interested. Along with parents who probably would want the asian guy to date/marry someone within their race or nationality. the ones i meet are usually shy and quiet. i definitely think Asian men are gorgeous, but i guess it really depends on their personality. i mean i’m seeing more and more Asian men in interracial relationships.
August 27th, 2008 at 10:19 am
I’m native american, but I don’t hang out in the sun so I can pass as a white girl. But I find many asian guys quite attractive, I just feel that they are not interested. White guys tend to flirt right off the bat even is the intention is friendship, but asian guys tend not to… therefor you ofen leave us thinking you are not interested.
August 31st, 2008 at 5:27 am
The average white girl does not find small-dicked asian guys attractive at all. Maybe not polite, but true
August 31st, 2008 at 8:38 pm
I’m a Chinese guy, and Asian, and I had to put my 0.2 here. Can’t resist….
Firstly, I agree with the video to a certain extent.
It talks like as if all white girls are desirable things. WRONG. Few white girls are actually attractive. I can draw and paint very well (have artistic talent), I know what is good looking/average/below average….
I consider myself attractive, and always have girls (and guys) looking at me everywhere I go, but I don’t have a girlfriend. I’m not talking about race. And the reason is because I’m shy. Yeah, being a nerd doesn’t help. I’m an Asian nerd. And I’m picky. Oops…. Can someone help me out? Asian girls can be so cruel…… :))
But, enough of me.
As for white girls, the ones that date Asian guys are the exception, not the rule. MOST white girls are racist, because girls in general have a herd mentality, regardless of race. Cmon admit it, and it will feel better.
So, because of all these stereotypes so firmly ingrained in everyone’s minds, you can expect an Asian guy and White girl to get stares everywhere. It will take 100 years to change this, if ever. Don’t believe me, head over to Asian countries if youre a WF and AM and you will know what I mean.
Remember…exception, not the rule.
Peace
September 1st, 2008 at 7:05 am
Well done boys, anyone who can’t watch this with a sense of humour is a dick head! I am Chinese and have lived in England for 10 years. I first dated a white girl when I was 15 and couldn’t speak very good English. She took coke thats why we broke up. Now I am 24 and have a stable relationship with a white girl who is very attractive and sexy. We fuck every night and have amazing orgasms! This video underlines a lot of facts and solutions to them. I was never the nerdy type, I was into football, gambling, drugs and sex. May be some white guys have a big cock, but a lot of them have a small one lol… I have seen lots of small ones and big ones at school. Mine is 6 inch and a bit full hard on, and my girlfriend tells me it’s big and good. That’s all you need, a good cock and sufficient skills in bed! May be the nerdy boys are reading the wrong books lol.
September 1st, 2008 at 3:06 pm
yeah so… im a white girl….and i LOVE asian guys…put a white guy next to an asian…and im checking out the asian…100% of the time. soooo….your cute. but you fail.
September 1st, 2008 at 10:41 pm
All the people moaning about asian this and white that should stop and think about us Indians. We came out the as lowest preferance, and it’s true.
I’m British born, speak with a clear British accent, and work as a photographer. Almost every women I meet treats me like i’m invisable, most people do actually. I’ve walked onto the set of glamour shoots and the models have frozen and stared, which makes the person running it suddenly act like I’m their long lost son in order to emphasize my status in the situation. I get the same ‘attitude’ off most people, like I’m beneath them, and I’m 6ft2″ tall!
I am confident but when your Indian everybody else calls it arrogance. Every non Indian girl I’ve been with spent at least a month or two thinking about it before dating me, and apparently I’m a hotty!
September 6th, 2008 at 1:22 pm
I’m a black american and yes asians are very unatractive both men and women ! I am a decendent of black slaves that go way back to the 17th century and listen good white men are naturally pedifials they have worked hard to keep it out of the history books and media! The only reason they date asian women is because they are shaped like children! Black american men were bred for centuries to be working machines thats why we dominate sports.And to reproduce thats why we have big dicks and can fu#k all night.Those fat white women going with handsome black men your about to get dumped too just like the black woman got dumped! Black american dick should be at a premium!You think it’s bad now we black american men is going to go international .Youpeople just do not get it black americans with our culture is the greatest original thing that america has produced!
September 7th, 2008 at 3:15 am
Well, I’m a white girl from Germany and I do like asian guys…not only, but I think they look cuter than German guys. But I don’t like some of their behaviors. My bf is from Hong Kong and we are already a couple for 9 years and I really really love him and his country. But not before…he teached me to like Asia and now I like it all…the music, the people and the movies..hahaha.
September 8th, 2008 at 7:04 am
This why I loved “Folklore and Other Stories” by Ankhesen Mie. She writes about Asian-American men. Great stuff.
September 12th, 2008 at 1:28 am
I’m white girl from Poland. Asian guys - WE LOVE YOU! ^^ a lot of girls from Europe love asian guys. I don’t know why but now I’m searching only for japanese boy. But there is a problem. I think you’re too shy. When I’m writing with some asian guy he can be more confident and open than when I’m talking with him by person. Okay, when the girl is very confident and she likes cute boys it’ll work. But for example I’m a litlle shy so what? The man have to do everything hehe. So be more confident. White girls love you!!
September 13th, 2008 at 7:23 am
I’m a white guy and honestly.. asian girls are ugly. In fact, this is going to sound awful but i’d never date one. They are so fake and try WAY to hard to act cute, and it doesn’t work. They are obsessed with big eyes, something they will never have. Many wear those fake cheap colored contacts, also in attempt to make their really small eyes look bigger.
And i’m 6′3 tall, I don’t like midgets. 5′6 and up is great for me!
September 17th, 2008 at 3:00 am
I am an Chinese guy from China and have been in the US for 11 years. I have dated both Asian and White girls.
Body Hair:
I have smooth skin and don’t have body hair. Some white girls actually like that in particular. - Not every white girl likes hairy guys. I actually wonder if all white girls got hairy arms and legs, because that is not that attractive especially when you touch over the skin. That is why there are so many shaving products out there. However, the thing matters most is her character and personality. Hair thing is just not a big deal.
Confidence:
This is an important attribute. No one is perfect, so that we all have flaws. Since we have flaws, we cannot be 100% confident. I believe in Jesus Christ and know that God accepts me unconditionally regardless how imperfect I am. - Knowing this gives me full confidence knowing that I am accepted by my creator. There will be girls rejecting me, but they don’t define who I am and will not damage my self-confidence.
Character and Personality
We can not change our height though we can work out to be fit. However, the most important things we can improve are our character and personality. It is not necessary for Asian guys to behave like white guys. Unique strength is important and we can draw that by discovering fine qualities in the Asian culture and try possess them.
Jesus replied: “Love the Lord your God with all you heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
When you love God, He will show you ways to improve yourself and how to love yourself and others. When you love yourself, you know how to work with God to improve yourself. When you have a healthy mind and soul, it will be easy for you to love others. When you love others unconditionally, someone you like will return favor.
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. ” - 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
For guys, I recommend Wild at Heart, a book by John Eldredge published in 2001. The author talked about every man has a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue.
When you have never dated a white girl or a girl from another race, you really want to try it. But once you have dated one, you will know that we are all human and there is nothing particular about being white that is cuter or superior. I actually think that if I start all over again, I won’t care about the race that much. - Again, it is more about what is inside her heart.
Here is a picture of me http://www.duke.edu/~fu02w/images/lana/Nick&Lana.jpg.
The above is just my 2-cents based on my own experience. For those who are looking for love, I encourage to also take the effort to work on your inner self. - Show your kindness, confidence, inner strength and something unique about you. Nike has a tag line “Just do it”, so what is yours?
September 21st, 2008 at 7:49 pm
hi, i am asian asian. before asian immigrant here, we usually watch hollywood movies, chinese movies(mostly watch the ones made in hong kong),japanese movies, korean movies. we were brain-washed from our own media that asian girls are really hot and have good personalities; of course, your own media tells that your women and you men are really good
after i came to the U.S, I watched more hollywood movies. thanks for hollywood movies to brainwash me that Asian girls are the hottest. although i think white girls are very hot, but i can’t resist my brain not to function the way Holloywood wants me to function, and everyone in the world watch holloywood. I am brainwashed and can’t really control myself to love asian girls more even if they still love white men. I know that hollywood put down asian men, but i watched a lot of asian movies/shows which cancelled out the negative effect of Hollywood brings to me. luckily me!!
now you see how two media brainwashed me differently, but they both tell me that asian girls are hottest. please don’t ask “Why Asian Guys Can’t Get White Girls”. just ask why so many men want asian girls while white girls are still very hot?
by the way, white/asian men are both great. white/asian girls both are so hot. now everyone is happy?? does anyone else need to put down someone/some races to make himself/herself feel better?? then put me down, called me dumb asian and wish my intelligence/finance level/look will go down at the same time to make you feel better!! hope that will get away from your insecurity. tell me that my English sucks if that makes your insecure side feel any better. thanks you for compliment anyway because my English is improved so much that some native speakers really can understand me enough so they want to put me down. thank you!! thank you!!
anyway, I love you all, women from all races!!
September 21st, 2008 at 8:05 pm
I just want to say that again. I love you all, women from all races!!
September 21st, 2008 at 10:07 pm
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September 24th, 2008 at 3:29 am
Im a white American girl dating a South Korean guy for 8+ months. He’s the first Asian guy I’ve ever dated and I am completely sold! I never thought a guy could have such soft skin, no body odor (seriously, doesn’t need deodorant, doesn’t wear it) and very little body hair. Not to mention he is extremely conservative, doesn’t watch porn and is very private about our relationship. That said, it does seem strange that white girl/asian guy couples are so uncommon. To be perfectly honest, before I met my bf, I bought into the stereotype that while Asian guys are ‘pretty’ they may be lacking in other areas. *ahem* But I can safely say now…no problems in that department!!
September 24th, 2008 at 11:59 am
White chick with an Asian boyfriend, here. Best guy I’ve ever dated. It really is all about personality — his is great! SO sweet! Also, I dig geeks. If a guy is hot, smart, sweet and can speak nerdy to me, and doesn’t mind a night in playing video games, doesn’t matter what the outside is like.
September 24th, 2008 at 12:04 pm
Oh yeah and as for the bits in the pants… in my limited experience, asian guys are on par with the average everywhere. I’ve been with some HUNG dudes, and seriously… my boyfriend isn’t gigantic, but he does the job better than anyone so far
September 28th, 2008 at 5:05 am
Congrats guys…. love the Video…… I think Asian guys are hot….. the video was a joke for those who took it the wrong way……. just luvvvvvvv Asian guys…. and much prefer them to westerners any day……
September 29th, 2008 at 3:10 pm
Funny video and very entertaining!
I’m Asian American and quite proud to be one. I think the Asian men should embrace a more balanced emphasis of physical, social, and intellectual development. Go to the gym or take up sports and build up the physique to look more masculine and athletic. Women of any race are attracted to men who are built to protect them. Speak up in group settings and show the confidence you have.
October 4th, 2008 at 11:37 am
I totally agree with everyone’s opinions so far. The possibilities of Asian girls going out with white guys are endless if u put everyone’s opinion together. Like the one of the asian guys in the video, we can’t do anything much about it. I have read some articles about this topic and talk about a lot of negative comments. Right now, I am trying to work out at a gym just to improve my physique.
Just be confident(not too confident) and (For guys only) I suggest practice talking with a female friend. It doesn’t matter white, black, hispanic, or asian, the only thing that matters is your personality.
October 5th, 2008 at 2:48 pm
This video is completely wrong. According to every official statistics, more South Asian (Indian) men are married to White and to other race than South Asian women.
http://www.statistics.gov.uk/cci/nugget.asp?id=1090
http://www.asian-nation.org/interracial.shtml
October 10th, 2008 at 10:21 am
Some Asian women think Asian guys prefer submissive women. This is the 21st century, hello! I think Asian Guys shouldn’t focus too much on White Girls. I think this Asian Guy dilemma on White Girls is overblown and overrated.
Maybe people didn’t get this video on Youtube because of their limited IQ unfortunately.
October 10th, 2008 at 4:27 pm
I am white girl and I LOVE asian guys becsuse theyre so forceful yet they have a gentle side..
October 11th, 2008 at 10:30 am
statistics does not matter in this topic
October 11th, 2008 at 1:58 pm
I bet alot of white guys were happy for a second!..LOL….But this video has seriously made stereotypes worse for asian guys..Not to mention people starting to believe and think this is true.. Like some of you said stereotypes are all about dominance. In other words making the colored people look bad.. Its been happening throught history to different medias and mean… This is BS people. My brother and cousin are asian and their dating a white girl!…..Not me though I only prefer asian girls…..
October 11th, 2008 at 10:32 pm
Why are people tripping? You’re stupid if you took this video seriously and not as a joke
October 14th, 2008 at 7:26 pm
man i am neither asian,or white….i aint pitch black either,i am brown……
I was just curious if anyone could tell me where this leaves me ????
October 17th, 2008 at 1:11 pm
I do have a feeling that people above, acting like they’re all cool, bashing the video, taking it waaay too serious, don’t actually get laid that much. Guys, relax. It’s just a video, and if you watch it fully, it denies stereotypes in the end. And stop trying to act tough online, when you’re not. It just makes you look stupid.
October 19th, 2008 at 1:13 am
guys , girls are just like that .they dont like guys who r nerdy and boring .well as for me girls suck they are just apain in the ass . a real annoying beings.
October 19th, 2008 at 8:13 am
I’m old now.
There were Asian guys I would have gone out with in my life but they were so gentlemanly and self-contained and I was never sure how to approach them. I was friendly and went out of my way to talk to them and show the proper body language but they never took the bait.
I always assumed that they preferred gentle girls of their own respective tribes who could engage in elaborate subtle metaphorical language to get the point across, not straight-talking barbarianesses. How many Asian men would even date a white woman or would find one “not of their own” attractive? They don’t wear signs, after all, and you can’t just come out and say you prefer your own sort of person these days (not that there is anything wrong with it).
October 20th, 2008 at 1:33 pm
The study of stanford shows, interracial marriage between white male with asian female are more than asian male with female the ratio 3:1. In addition, naturally, women have choice to choose their mate, so being an asian guy is tough to get accept from white girl. I dont offend it or anything, mostly white girl they prefer white guy more than asian guy. However, it’s not true at all, that asian guys cant get any white girl, coz I used to have many gf such as Latina, white and asian. I don’t care what race they are, as long they are hot and sweet.
October 25th, 2008 at 11:18 am
ppl who takes this video seriously, i have a message for u!!! dont lose hope
October 25th, 2008 at 1:08 pm
What’s up with Ann? : 6/27/2008
I picture, a bleach blonde bimbo who dates guys that drive BMW’s and lives with mom. What environment are you in, where all these asian men are crawling all over you, and they all make you ill? I’m half asian, my mother’s japanese and dad was swedish,Irish and german. I’m fairly intelligent, athletic and was raised catholic and served as an alter boy and still a church goer. I’m in my mid 40’s now, happy and successful with my still gorgeous wife of 20 years. She’s educated, professional, involved in local politics and mom to my 2 boys. I played semi-pro football as a wide receiver until just a few years ago and could probably still compete. Yeah, I’ve got the caveman thing going on just like any other guy, sports cars, football, competition, beautiful women etc. I’m actually kind of laid back and except for a couple of times, never asked a girl out, I was the one being approached. I started dating my wife after she had asked me out on a date. I still get subliminal and direct interest from the opposite sex from women half my age in the workplace. Kind of flattered, but I’m very happy in my marriage. It’s unfortunate someone would have so much hate, anger and ignorance towards any race of man, for really no other reason than they throw themselves at her, because she’s self-proclaimed “good looking”. Maybe she had some bad chinese food or something or her toyota broke down. I think if these asian men would have talked with the bimbo first they would have changed their mind, after realizing they were talking to a “box of rocks”. If you were a guy and called me weak and pathetic to my face, I’d body slam you oh, there goes that caveman in me again. Ann, in 20 years when you’re even chubbier, botoxed out and still bleaching your hair, I’ll still be happy and look the same.
October 28th, 2008 at 10:51 pm
The saddest thing is that people take this thing so seriously. Everything in the video was a joke….and yeah some jokes do tend to go towards the racist side, but I think this was just an observation and a joke on the stereotypes. =.= Besides people who actually watched the whole thing can’t complain because they knew what it was going to be about in like the first….thirty seconds….or the title…or whatever else.
November 6th, 2008 at 5:20 am
Just remember this fools…. YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE.
Nothing can change that.
Forget about white women, just pay a hooker and get it over with. Thats my impute.
November 6th, 2008 at 8:54 am
As said before, this video is meant to be a joke
I didn’t read all the comments (of course) but I saw Ann’s comment and that is just not acceptable.. That’s the kind of person that makes white people look racist =/
I’m a white girl from sweden and I also love asian guys, as a lot of other girls.
(My last boyfriend was korean.)
Let’s face it, in reality I think asian guys don’t have any problems with getting girls of whatever color.
How many people doesn’t love Asia and asian people nowadays?
It’s all about what kind of looks you like.
I’m really into dark eyes, and dark hair, and I love the asian look.
It’s very cute
And I’ve discovered that asians seems to have nicer bodies most times
But anyway, I like people of all colors, not just asians of course.
It’s all in the looks and the personality
November 10th, 2008 at 12:11 pm
not true i am azn and i got a hot white girlfriend : )
November 12th, 2008 at 12:38 pm
haha that was awesome!
there is a similar video i watched b4 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kBFDxBBS_rQ
November 14th, 2008 at 11:51 am
it’s a funny vid, but… asian guys shouldn’t sell themselves short, even if it’s a joke. you’re just sending white guys on a power trip–and seriously, that’s the last thing they need. white guys are NOT attractive (speaking as a white chick here). who needs the arrogance, the ego, the lack of humour, the selfishness, the hairiness, the body odour, the snotty faux intellectual behaviour and that pasty white skin with all their screwed up dna?! NOT ME! i’m dating outside my race to get away from all that crap, and my preference is definitely asian. besides, i’ve only ever seen white guys with really FUGLY asian chicks, so there’s nothing to be jealous or insecure about, dudes.
November 15th, 2008 at 6:53 pm
well, look, I hope people don’t take this seriously, because the video is a hilarious joke, (a satire, even) and nothing more.
I think culture is the problem here. Many asian men grew up in strict families where contact with the opposite sex, be it white or asian, is restricted. This tends to churn out men who are rather shy around the girls. And as (i believe) girls find confidence a VERY desirable attribute, confident guys, (which tends to be white guys because of their more open upbringing) tend to be more attractive than nerdy asians.
But no matter, to all the shy asian guys out there, practise losing your inhibitions around girls and you’ll definite find someone you desire and deserve.
To all the girls out there, white or asian who want a nice, reliable, caring man, shy Asian guys actually have very good potentials. I’ve seen intellectual and physical powerhouses act like little boys around women. Talk to them, encourage them, (I know this is a bit pathetic but let’s face it, some of us out there NEED encouragement), and you’ll be surprised what comes out once the shell has cracked.
November 16th, 2008 at 10:50 pm
eeeh im eastern european girl and in my opinion asian guys are hotter then whites,expecially white americans!
November 16th, 2008 at 10:55 pm
ooh,and one more thing to ask….cause i was always wondering that…do asian guys like european girls?(sorry for my bad english)
November 17th, 2008 at 1:21 pm
I am a white and blonde girl and I only date asian guys. I think that they are the hottest guys alive and Chinese/Japanese/Korean guys with their perfect skin, sexy jet black hair and gorgeous eyes turn me on more than any one guy ever can. I AM SO IN LOVE WITH THEM. I love how they are not hairy and just effing flawless.
November 23rd, 2008 at 1:29 pm
I love this vid… it’s cute and harmless - people who said it’s racist are oversensitive douchebags… and by the way, i’m a white girl and I LOOOOOOOVVVEEE my chinese bf… he’s sexy, passionate, strong-willed and one of the smartest people I’ve ever met… and the hair thing is WRONG - i love his nice, smooth skin…
OH and the Bai Ren Kan Bu Dong shirt is hilarious… I want one!
asian men are yummmmmy!
smart white girls know that yellow is the way to go
December 10th, 2008 at 5:01 pm
Well, I’m an asian guy, but i really think that race doesn’t matter but the personality is the most important. IF girls (well, such as some brain-washed asian girls in america these days xD) ONLY look for physical traits, then oh well…so be it. They brainless but some day they would realized that looks doesn’t matter (which means they grew some brain cells in their heads xD). GIRLS usually are starting to be more mature when they are around the late 20s - 30s. Young girls might think that BIG GUYS are nice and all, but when they’ve become older, they would realize that physical traits aren’t really important. COME ON, THIS IS THE 21st CENTURY NOW. WE ARE NOT BACK IN THE OLD DAYS WHERE WE HAVE TO HUNT.
And to answer Iris’s question, YES asian guys LOVE european girls also. When they say “white girl” they would mean White/European girls, or even Latinas!! Well, at least I LOVE White/European and Latin girlies!!
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December 13th, 2008 at 1:59 pm
Wow … I am an Asian and I go to SDSU. I really feel that white girls DO NOT give a crap about Asian guys. If there is one out there. I would like to meet you and shake your hand.
But again, no offense but I think that some white girls are REALLY conceited. Wouldnt date one if I had the chance, I mean I love there “physical” appearance. I go to school everything wishing I can be with one but the truth is personality matters the most. Well, my buddy who is an Asian went out with a white girl for a few months and at first we thought he is the man but after a few months they broke up because we are culturally so different.
Mine you we are not FOBS …
December 18th, 2008 at 9:55 am
I’m a white girl (half german/half italian)…and i prefer asian guys..i most likely wouldnt want to date any other race..they are adorible
January 1st, 2009 at 1:04 pm
I am Chinese who is a math graduate student now in the United States and has been here for like 18 months, I’m not as nerdy as some Chinese students can be and I am more open than other Chinese(not raised here) For some reason I was thrown in an off-campus apartment with undergrad kids when I first got here. It was a huge culture shock to me but I got myself involved into drinking and partying and all that stuff. During that time I dated a redhair chick, she was not gorgeous but still okay looking. It was the first time I have ever dated a white girl, we broke up because I couldn’t stand that she was into weed. In my opinion, for those Asians that English is not their first language, communication barrier makes them hard to socialize, not to mention dating. But to who don’t have this problem, I don’t think it’s too much of an issue. Also, I think most college girls, especially freshman and sophomore(the chick I dated was a 18 years old freshman), are pretty dumb. Some of them mostly socialize with whom they know for a certain amount of time, like their sorority sisters or high school mates, they are not very open with outsiders and people with different ethnic background. I DO NOT LIKE WHAT ANN SAID, obviously she is not a nice person and the statement itself is stupid and racist because to most Americans they don’t even know much about Asian culture. Sometimes I feel frustrated about this. I am being a calculus TA here and I have seen so many kids here just cannot understand math, their brain just can’t process it. I have never been mean to any of them. Should I just say White kids are like animals they are too stupid to get any human science? Be nice to others please, mean people sucks!
January 5th, 2009 at 4:44 am
i find the video quite refreshing. i think people are simply more comfortable with what they are familiar with. the word racist is a socio-political label- perhaps there are a few (i think very few) who actually add some hatred to racial profiling maybe because they find security within their circle of friends who are like that. but really everything has to do with upbringing and the familiar enviroment. if it takes too much work it’s not worth it to force oneself to people who do not like you- although in the end i find that most people in the world are cool. i’m asian and lived most of my life in asia. recently, i am staying in europe and apparently, although everyone is really very very friendly it’s me who is not very comfortable with the european locals. but i would not call anyone racist. for some reason i just find asians easy to talk to because i am asian myself, although i get attracted to both hot women who are asians or non-asians and i also find african girls really hot. one of my first girlfriends in amsterdam was this really hot girl from south africa. and yes, i am short, nerdy, shy- only for a short while. so, i really don’t understand how men or women find the person they are attracted to.
January 5th, 2009 at 5:13 am
i quickly browsed over some comments above and read dave’s comment. and i agree with dave concerning the comments of ann, who likes everyone to stick with their “own kind”. i guess she thinks asians find her attractive for some reason. maybe everyone finds her too attractive but singles out asians because they look different. honestly, i cannot identify with her because i am not a physically attractive person, like i mentioned earlier, i’m just a shy asian guy who is short and carries a small dick- really pathetic. although, hot women find me attractive too, not initially though. but in some ways, i agree with ann, it is much easier to stick “with your own kind”- instead of forcing oneself to a group of unwelcoming people. i think any group of people who find me cool are cool- i don’t care if they are good looking or bad looking, as long as they find me attractive and they laugh at my jokes. in the end, it’s actually the most confident people who simply are comfortable with anyone they find interesting. since i am not attractive in the hollywood-sense, the only girls who find me attractive are those who are confident enough to go out with me. and frankly, i am attracted to the hollywood type beauty too, but that’s only an initial attraction, if she aint fun it’s no fun and the beauty fades quickly because the expectations are not met. too much beauty without much substance is ok for a few minutes or occasional conversations. and frankly, the ones who think they are too pretty are not very good in bed either (this is of course a generalization which do not make sense). ann is right, i have to stick with my own kind. the kind who are confident enough not to care.
January 7th, 2009 at 3:46 am
Heey, Im white and my man is asian, and damn do i love him alot.
January 7th, 2009 at 9:16 am
Haha. The reason why Asian guys can’t girls is because they don’t try. We whites got guts. Asian guys don’t do shit to get a girl. I bet they can get as many white girls as they like if they tried to go for them like we do(unless they aren’t great lookin’). =P
January 9th, 2009 at 10:51 am
I’ve seen this video a couple times, and it’s really cute; I’ve laughed every time. I don’t think it’s meant to be taken too seriously at all. Phillip is a cutie, imo, and he’s right, when he notices the imbalance in white girl/Asian guy couplings compared to the Asian girl/white guy pairing. It’s something I personally pay attention to because I’m a white female and I’m a sucker for Asian guys.
I’ve dated 2 Japanese guys (one relationship lasted for 2 years) and currently have my eye on a cute Chinese guy at work. Like other posters, my frustration with Asian guys is that they can be too shy, not aggressive enough in their approach to dating, which means I’m either waiting around for them to ask me out, or I have to do it myself, which is a powerful feeling, but that gets old too.
It doesn’t matter what race you are - if you don’t turn me on in some way (mentally, physically), no date, buddy. I would encourage those shy Asian men out there to feel out potential mates via casual conversation and see if she’s responding well at all. You might get lucky and run into someone like myself, or any one of the enthusiastic posters previous to me who exclaim how much they love Asian men
The moral of the story: Be confident and kind, be funny and honest - and you just might get lucky.
January 10th, 2009 at 1:42 pm
Im a island chick and I LOVE ASIAN GUYS….so fuck all the mother fuckers that says bad shit about asian guys. I reckon the only reasOn why asian guys dont go for the white chicks is because they know that they number SLUTS and they have all kinda desease so i really dont blame them for not asking the white girls out. YA HEARD MO-FOS !!
Anywayz, have a GOOD 1 :):)
January 10th, 2009 at 6:32 pm
i found this vid. pretty hilarious!
in the end it explains i guess.
i didnt find it at all boring , but interesting and funny. XD
i am white/hispanic and i LOVE asian guys.
as for dating a white guy… thats not for me, ive always like asian guys for some reason…
i would like to date that azn guy in the vid. he is hot XDDD
January 13th, 2009 at 5:51 pm
haha nice video
i think the problem are the asian guys who think being confidence is arrogance theres this level where youre neither confident nor arrogance , asian guys are just too chicken. most of em, i am asian too
January 14th, 2009 at 1:00 am
IM ASIAN AND I LOVE WHITE WOMEN!!!
January 20th, 2009 at 9:16 am
I’m a chinese Scot in the UK and my present girlfriend is Italian. Lots of my previous gf are white and never had a problem pulling white girls.
In fact, most of my former gf including my current Italian gf chose me over many white males pursuing them during the same time we started.
So for me at least there has never been an issue.
I do believe the fact that when you’re around girls if you’re relaxed and can talk to them and have some confidence it helps.
End of the day i believe in everyone mixing regardless of race. I would like to see the whole world mixing and having great children together. You ever noticed most mix race kids are so cute? Asians and whites, black and whites they are all cute man! lol.
And by mixing the we show by example that everyone can mix and there is less barriers and reasons to hate each other.
Peace!! lol.
January 20th, 2009 at 9:24 am
…and just to add to the point lol, here is a text i received from my Italian girlfriend a few minutes ago: ‘ur ambitious, determined, good in bed, sweet n cute wif ego issues…’ lol. Btw, when she said ego issue i only can assume she says i have too big of an ego lol :).
Well i c it as confidence. Anyhoo, just as i’m on the subject i thought i would share this.
Peace!!!! lol. From a Scottish Asian chap.
January 20th, 2009 at 6:59 pm
The problem is not asian guys cannot get white girls. The true reason is that so many of them don’t want to have white girls.
I am a chinese guy and I study in USA University. My roommate is an American guy who is very nice. He told me some truth about American girls. He said that eight of ten american girls have sex disease in USA because they have messy sex activities with so many sex partners in the daily life. It makes me feel that American girls are really dirty….. I don’t wanna be affected by sex disease even HIV. Therefore, I will definitely marry with our Chinese girls.
Another problem is that Chinese guys never treat love as a game. If they date with girls, they want to hold their hands to get marry in the future. My American roommate told me that most of White girls never treat love seriously. Even though a Chinese guy has married with a white girl, they will divorce within two years because of so many difference in cultures and different views to the World. Chinese parents want their sons have a stable marriage, that is why so many of them reject to accept White girls… Therefore, I will not date with white girls even don’t wanna give a try!
January 30th, 2009 at 1:44 pm
Dude that video is really funny and true!
I’m a white girl and I think Asian guys are sooo cute! My boyfriend is Asian. The reason I started liking him when I met him is because he was cute, confident, and funny.
If a guy or girl likes someone, all they gotta do is be confident when they talk to them and just ask them out. Because really the worst thing that might go wrong is they will say no. But hey, you tried, and that experience could possibly help next time.
~Asian guys + white girls rock!
January 31st, 2009 at 3:37 am
My dream is to marry a beautiful white girl and live happily ever after hehe .idk if it’ll ever come true..oh im a malay from Malaysia(Malaysia boleh) which is same as chinese because we’re asians..
but the thing i love about white girls is..they are very direct and honest too they, most of the time will tell it to your face…i believe had i lived in America( which i had a long time ago ).. and i see a cute white girl and i approached her and smile and say hi! and shows interest towards her and she responds positively.I feel the first step is already accomplished with flying colors..but im not living in America or any country where whites are a majority..the only white girls i see is tourists plus i heard that at some location in my country they are whites but untill then.. my search goes on…will i ever find my true white love…
February 4th, 2009 at 11:21 am
I posted here once b4. Anyways, I’ve been single my whole life(except for online relationships, if that even counts). And I’m an Asian American guy(Chinese). I’ve had several girls online telling me I’m good looking, but no such comments in my school or in my own town for that matter! Until the media has a better way of exposing Asian males(and other races) in a positive way, then it’ll make it that much more difficult. But yeah, what ppl said above is true…just be confident and atleast try……which is something I haven’t done yet xD I would love to see these stereotypes just die, and these stereotypes are not proof of denial, because they were never true to begin with.
On a side note: there is virtually NO Asian male and White Female relationships in my school…or even town!…….I guess, I’m moving to the South, lol!!!! xDDDD maybe they’ll like me there =)
February 9th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
People are all the same, sadly enough. All people suck equally. We are all racists and bigots to varying degrees. I guess Asian chicks that date white are either racists (against AMs) or open-minded (to other races). I guess white chicks that would not date asians are either racists (against AMs) or think AMs are no into WFs. But the key is, to know there are extreme racists and bigots out there. And you have to get through the racists ones, to find the keepers. You can’t find the keepers w/o dealing with the “hate” we have for one another. The reason their is an imbalance in the dating ratio is simply hate. Asian girls hating themselves, white dudes hating Asian men, white girls hating on Asians, and and Asian men hating on all of the above. The minute you treat people the same regardless of race, we won’t have to see these sophmoric satires, and deal with more important issues. We are all brainwashed to think as a collective. Which is good to move societies, but when it comes to love, try to think on your own. You can’t choose which country you are a citizen of (generally), but you can choose who you live with for the rest of your life (or hope to).
February 11th, 2009 at 3:47 pm
Asian guys are hot…
I’m single and I wish I had an Asian guy.. I like the slightly cocky ones, no shy guys for me! They have to be shorter than me (I’m 5′9) and have a nice chest… so i’m picky! lol. Well they say, never settle for less, because you’ll get even less than what you thought you settled for! The main actor in this movie is hot. I wonder if he’s still in Dego..
February 20th, 2009 at 6:05 am
Cmon are you kidding me. Everyone knows white chics don’t dig on Asian dudes because they have small dicks. I thought everyone was aware of the situation? Bwahahahahaaha j/k
February 21st, 2009 at 2:42 am
May be in America this is a problem. I know that in country of Kazakhstan caucasian girls have no problem marrying asian guys, because Kazakhstan used to be a republic of USSR, people there do speak Russian besides their native language, and so some cultural commonality had built up during soviet era.
February 25th, 2009 at 10:50 am
HAHAHAHAAHAAHAHAHAA….damn..good stuff
March 11th, 2009 at 3:47 pm
ann is a fucking racist white bitch! she’s a female version of HITLER, beware of that hitler whore guys. i think her parents were the leaders of the kkk maybe still are, i bet she is ugly, may looks like amy winehouse or some ugly bitch. what a pathetic piece of human being that is a waste of breath of God. so fucking ignorant and dumb ass. she’s the bitch that’s probably glued herself to the television and the damn media. she said that asian guys are dumb???? where has she been? under a rock?? statistic shows that generally asian people are smarter than others not to be cocky. but it’s true, if you go to college or universities you see asian students everywhere, even though asian are the least percentage of people in america, but in the school system they are dominant. ann bitch ass just crawled out from her mother’s vigina all this years!
March 16th, 2009 at 11:17 am
jimmy stfu
March 16th, 2009 at 5:54 pm
I adore Asian guys.
I can’t stand hairy men at all!!
I know many white guys who are obsessed with Asian girls/women.
Why shouldn’t they be?
I think it is more common to see white guys and asian women.
As for the other way around , I don’t see it so much.
Hopefully taht will change.
April 1st, 2009 at 5:17 am
I am white girl from Nordic Scandinavian and I really prefer Asian guys, but sadly here in my country is not so many Asian:(.
April 7th, 2009 at 4:26 am
Hey to all the women that like Asian guys…ok where you girls live cause I can’t find anyone in Oregon. I adore all types of women. Each has there own quality and traits. I have only dated white females and currently in search for another but since I am older now harder to get a date.
April 11th, 2009 at 3:25 pm
i think those asian girls are just white washed.
me? im the complete opposite,
i mean, i can rock both race, but, i perfer asians<3
April 20th, 2009 at 2:26 am
i lost my virginity to finnish/swedish girl in my first year of college. years later i found out she married an asian dude, she now has a kid with him. (wish em both all the best)
anyhow, i dont have a problem with white men…maybe b’cuz am v good looking. but i do have a problem with getting any1 to marry me. its mainly cuz i dont earn much money.
so the moral the story is…shit happens.
April 22nd, 2009 at 7:06 pm
Hi. Im a funny-good looking (nah you wouldnt believe it ;d) asian guy and im from indonesia
This topic sounds interesting for me and it makes my head spinning after i read all of the comments *_* it opens my mind a lil’
.But asian male is a sex addict??!! JESUS this part is rly rly wrong. You never met me..if you were you’ll change your mind coz i’ll never touch ya grrrr *^*
Someone said that asian male usually shy, i think its true sometimes…it was happens to me too
Here’s a story about a shy asian guy
Asian male think “oh i like that white chick but she must be looking for a tall-hot-white guy-full of muscles just like hulk, not brown monkey like me” so he act cool and never showin his feelin to her.
The white chick think “awww that brown monkey looks cute even without carryin a big banana, but it looks like he doesnt interested in me..whatever!!”
….and then the white chick and brown monkey will never be together…sad ending huh.
Yah thats one thing thats happens in my life, finally i realize it but its too late
So next time better tell what you feel…be a man.
Racism is still overwhelming this world, and cant change it as long as all hitler wanna be didnt change their mind. Actually we must consider differences is one thing that we will always deal with, and we must love differences.
For every guy that accept differences…keep rock man!! \m/
and for every girl that accept differences such ass maggie,louhi,brittany…can we talk???
Hehehe JK
April 24th, 2009 at 11:29 am
Guess how i bumped into this video? I’ve been googling for the colour white for my research, and this video seems interesting enough lol. Seriously its true, we asian guys need more confidence, this video is totally not so true but hilarious tho. I live in asia and i’m Asian, but the place i work hv lots of white girls. Its pretty easy to approach them dude, all u need is confidence. Usually “wanna hang out after work?” always works like a charm to me. White gals here, call me!!!!
May 18th, 2009 at 12:24 am
I would like to share with you my story,
okay so I’m south African, and half French, I have grown up living in the UK,
and I’m going to be truthful here, I would date a African Americana, Asian, Caucasian, Mexican, mixed, Native American, Indian I DO NOT CARE what I guys nationality, ethnicity is I say that if you love someone, your not going to care about what race they are! I’m a Caucasian female of mixed race, and I’m proud of my ancestry!
Anyway I think the fist time I really started noticing Asian guys was when I met a good friend of mines cousin from china, I had a major crush on him, but being me, I was too shy to tell him, and he was my best friends cousin, so I did not tell him, to watch him from afar was enough for me…or so I though, many times I thought of telling him, but before I knew it, it was too late and he was leaving for college, I regret not saying anything to him, telling him how I felt, but there is nothing I can do about it now, all I can say is that if you…if you love someone tell them, before its too late…I learnt this the hard way….please don’t make my same mistake… and tell them…because if you don’t…you may live to regret it…
May 25th, 2009 at 12:33 pm
maybe for me its the inferiority that sits in when asian guys try to be with white girls.
but not all coz there are some asian guys marries white women.
shybaby
June 11th, 2009 at 10:22 pm
yeah, your problem guys is that u don’t do a thing to get a girl. i’m living in an asian country currently, and i’m sooo upset bout the way most asian guys are, so passive. there are lots of them who want to date me, but damn they just dream about it and that’s it. i tried to deal with it in the beginning but hey i can’t do everything myself, i’m really giving up and thinking about moving to europe, only because it’s so difficult to be in a relationship here. and i’ve dated quite many of them, different age, social status etc, even a superstar is among ‘em. but same shit going over and over again. please come on guys, go work for getting a girl!
June 13th, 2009 at 8:01 am
I am Filipino, 15 years old, and yes I catch a lot of white girls (sexy, attractive) that are eye-balling me but there not my type but I like white girls especially this girl that I really like and we are good friends we pretend to be a married couple, well she started it she told me that from now on we’re married, and I do flirt with her, but I am too busy for a relationship for now maybe next year. But anyway, well my friends (of all races) describe me as a cool dude, they even call me their Top Asian, Fantastic Filipino, and etc. and I appreciate that I am also the smart-ass in my group of friends…some really like me when I act like that but not too much to the extent that you are explaining long Mathematical problems.
But the real lesson here is CONFIDENCE and the way you act around your friends also counts, because it shows how out-going, and fun of a person you are — INDIRECTLY sending the girl a message of your personality.
June 17th, 2009 at 12:03 pm
you’re best to stick to your won culture. western girls pretend to like asian, indian, and middle eastern boys so they can exploit them. they have dillusional and dangerous fantasies about the exotic culture, and fulfill them by exploiting eastern boys for attention. sex and money. leave the western trash to western trash. don’t allow the to control ur ulture like they’;ve done for centuries.
I need to address a very sensitive and often controversial topic. I had a very stressful chat with a fellow ’so called’ Punjabi . It was very upsetting. I will share it with you, without disclosing names. I will add that the person did have some good points, and yet, at the same time, some very wrong misconceptions. Basically, he is a ’so called Punjabi’ who has chosen to abandon his culture and date a hochha gar with a different mind set and lack of values than what he is supposed to have. Instead of improving his culture, he’s enjoying someone who will give him attention when she’s actually playing mind games with him. Now, before anyone thinks of me as horrible, or bad, stereotypical or discriminatory, I must say this…that is NOT my intention, and I will add that the person does have SOME good points. YET, he also has A LOT to learn. First off, he is dating a Gori girl. He had also once tried to seduce me, saying if you didn’t already have a sardar, I would have gone after you. I replied to him that even if I hadn’t had my own sardarji at the time, I wouldn’t have gone for him anyway. Men like that are more trouble than they are worth…and that worth really isn’t much. This is basically what the conversation is about. He had trouble in the past with a Punjabi girl (he had an arranged marriage which ended in divorce after 6 months), and has now decided to date a Gori girl. (In this case, he claims to be Sikh, and she is a protestant who smokes and drinks, which is against Sikh religion and disrespectful to his religion and culture.) I will add commentary after the following -
” i think white ppl are much more honest what do u know sweetie, u dont know what those girls are
i actually dont like that culture i know there are many good girls, but you are too over board for me to make a point if u listen to me the culture is too shallow, they expect so much angel like behavior from guys that its almost impossible to approach a girl, only thing is if girl approaches you, girls dont do it, so its much easier from guys who are from outside to approach girls and these girls are shallow, they hate beard, they just want to have good time, ethics, spirituallity, is shit to them, so they do what they want, and virgin guys are left to walk the dignified way of culture, other thing here is, sikhism and Punjabi culture are totally different things and can exist without each other a muslim can be punjabi, a hindu can be punjabi, culture is notthing, i have my pride in being a sikh madam, will u kill your infant daughter it happens in punjab come on ground, what do u think those ppl want, everybody wants sex, gori say it, desi act something else, do something else, culture does not adds any virtue, yes if its a practicing sikh girl, then its different no they dont kill their kids, gori is not absolute term, there are americans, and there are europeans, and ppl vary”
Ironically enough, the same guys who say this also do THIS - read the following articles -
The Indian government has launched a new scheme to help women who are married and then abandoned by men of Indian origin living in the West. The Ministry of Overseas Indian Affairs says women who are divorced or deserted within two years of marriage will be entitled to legal and financial aid. According to one estimate, up to 20,000 women have been abandoned by their non-resident Indian (NRI) husbands. Mostly, the husbands disappear after pocketing fat dowries paid at weddings. An official in the ministry, SS Rana, told the BBC that women who needed help could approach Indian missions abroad directly or through non-governmental organisation approved by them. “The deserted women will be given financial assistance of $1,000 for seeking legal help and will also be offered counselling,” he said. Initially this facility will be given to women who have been married for two years or less.
Migrant populations -
But Mr Rana said: “If we get a large number of such cases where women are abandoned after the two-
year deadline, we will review the time limit.” Officials say most cases of NRIs duping their Indian
brides are reported in the United States, Canada, Britain, Australia and New Zealand – countries with substantial Indian migrant populations. And most of the abandoned women come from the Punjab,
Gujarat, Andhra Pradesh and Kerala - states which send out a large number of migrants to the West. Indian protest against dowries-
Dowries have been the subject of much debate in India. The deputy secretary in the National Commission for Women, Gurpreet Deo, says they have received several complaints where after marriage a woman goes abroad with her husband only to find that her husband is already married. “In many cases, men claim they hold fantastic jobs abroad, but when the wife goes, she realises that he is either out of work or does some odd jobs,” she says. Then there are “holiday brides”. Ms Deo says: “In these cases, NRIs come to India for a holiday, get married, pocket the dowry, and then disappear without leaving a trace.” With their dreams shattered, the duped women have to grapple not just with
emotional scars, but with the practicalities of being abandoned. Sometimes they also have to deal with pregnancy and worry about bringing up children on their own.
Highly coveted -
Because of social stigma, they are unable to remarry. In India a financially well-established son- in-law living in the UK, US or Canada is highly coveted. A Green Card holder in the US [which gives a foreigner right of residency and right to work] or one possessing a similar document in the UK or
Canada or other Western countries is regarded as a “good catch”. Ms Deo says the reason why NRIs get
away after duping their wives is “because in their greed to send their daughters abroad, most parents don’t do enough verification. There is very little awareness about these problems”. Once dumped, there is little these women can do. Ms Deo says: “Because there are extra-territorial boundaries involved, most women are left in the lurch when their NRI husbands run away. There is no legal way to get them back. “The police are often reluctant to file a case. And even if they do, and the court issues a summons, how do you deliver the summons on foreign territory? The court can order confiscation of property, but what about those NRIs who do not own property in India?” The National Commission for Women is now demanding tougher laws to deal with such cases. The commission has also called on the Indian government to sign extradition treaties with foreign countries so that the runaway grooms can be brought back to India and tried in a court of law. “Domestic violence or matrimonial offences at present are not extraditable offences. We need to address that,” Ms Deo says.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/4837122.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/4785750.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/4592890.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/3696562.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/3246786.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/3283989.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/3048417.stm
For those of you who don’t know…..the only thing separating Desi, Middle Eastern and Gori are supposedly two things – skin colour and mind set. Both are considered Caucasian according to wikipedia.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race
(The term Caucasian race or Caucasian is used to refer to people whose ancestry can be traced back to Europe, North Africa, West Asia, South Asia and parts of Central Asia. It was once considered a
useful taxonomical categorization of human racial groups based on a presumed common geographic
and/or linguistic origin.)
in.news.yahoo.com/070912/43/6kn1o.html
This ignorant rundi make some really offensive stereotypes about Indians and her assumptions about
the similarities between they and Russians. (If link doesn’t work, here’s the article)
Moscow, Sep 12 (RIA Novosti) Indian men promise to be the ideal spouses for Russian women, affected as they are by a high male death rate owing largely to unhealthy lifestyles. That is the opinion of Maria Arbatova, leading Russian feminist author and prominent television presenter. ‘The import of eligible bachelors from India is my big geopolitical idea,’ she told RIA Novosti news agency. India can be of help now that Russia has come to grips with its formidable demographic problem, Arbatova said during the launch of her latest book ‘A Taste of India’ at the 20th Moscow International Book Fair recently. ‘First, both Russians and Indians are Indo-Europeans, and we speak related languages - just look at the many similarities between Sanskrit and modern Russian vocabularies. Second, and even more important, the archetypal Indian man is a fanatic paterfamilias. (Highest ranking in family status) To raise many children is his cherished dream, and he makes the best possible husband,’ remarked Arbatova, who is married to Shumeet of West Bengal in eastern India. Attracting Indian bachelors to Russia should be a government policy, she argues, or Russia will soon have two crosses to bear - one of its own male deaths and the other of the Chinese birth rate. ‘Asian Russia, from the Pacific coast up to the Urals, is full of Chinese men anxious to marry Russian girls. If the Chinese are not promptly balanced out, no matter by whom - Indians, Africans or extraterrestrials, either Asian Russia will become a Chinese province before 2050 or Chinese will become Russia’s second official language,’ she jokes ironically. ‘Just look, Russia has two employment agencies in China, and none in India. Shame!’ Arbatova’s book went on sale last spring and was on the bestseller list in summer. Britain’s International Biographical Center of Cambridge has awarded her its 20th Century Outstanding Achievement gold medal. The author points out many similarities between Russian and Indian life. ‘Socialism got my country out of the Big Game for 70 years. Colonialism did the same to India for two centuries. Both nations are now getting back to their sources in the age of globalist. That’s hard to do - like walking home inside a centrifuge,’ she says.
Now, the big difference is mind set. The thinking of the two cultures. So called ‘ white’ people are no more honest than Punjabi, or Desi in general. Or anyone else for that matter. (Often times, they are far LESS honest in fact.) And, whilst Punjab, or India, or any Desi, Asian, or Middle Eastern region is not perfect, there is much to be said FOR it. (Otherwise, why would the Goris want to copy and exploit eastern culture to begin with?) Also, the actions of wanting guys (or people in general) to act like angels is far from a bad thing. However, It must be equal for both girls and guys, and must be realistic and for pure, good, constructive intentions. ‘Gori/Gora’ males and females (in general) alike are very materialistic, set on ego, and live life to fulfill their own temptations. They are very false and misleading. This happens in all cultures, but particularly in the western cultures and Goris are incredibly shallow. The macho dominance in Gora males, and the sex pot attitude of the Gori girls is incredibly misleading. Also, on the news all too often many reports of some Gori, Latino, and/or black girl who has gotten pregnant, dumped her baby in the toilet or a garbage can, or they sit in motels and have crystal meth labs, they have sex with multiple partners, and they don’t have regrets. They do drugs, get drunk, have orgies, etc. and expose their children to it. With many Goris, Latinos, and blacks also is the need to show off….wearing tiny clothes, flirting wildly with others, having public kissing/petting sessions to show off, etc. The need for discipline is crucial to create a successful global society, and to keep our humanity going. Lack of virtue and values leads to our demise, because we allow ourselves to cause trouble to us and others. Gori/Gora, Latino, or Black does not mean a person is bad. However, these people are more known for their inappropriate behaviors, due to cultural upbringing. On a few other notes, many Goris also dislike face hair and / or long hair. And Goris also have just as much, if not less concern for their spirituality…. Or they have false ideas from it which contribute to some of society’s evils. They gain false views on things, and then try to spread it forth, whilst still committing other acts, making them hypocrites.
Also, many Goris are fascinated by other cultures they’re not used to, and if they find the person friendly, they may latch to them for attention, but not because their souls are truly bound to that
person, despite what they may say. they are enamored by something they’re not used to. the whole reason they want to become a part of eastern culture is that they have a strange, sad, dangerous fantasy which destroys others, and they do not care. And, yet, on
the flip side, many Goris also make fun of cultures they’re not used to, and harass them. This isn’t meant to be Gori/Gora bashing, but merely pointing out the fact that Goris/Goras are often the most apt to harass or exploit Desi (and other cultures), and in general, people of one culture (especially western vs. eastern) will try to take advantage of each other for false reasons (though it should be pointed out that not EVERYONE is like this, in general, it is more common. I have seen more women than men (especially Gori women) who play the emotional toy game on a long term basis. ( The men seem less successful at the game they play than the women.) They will flirt in public (or on publicly visible websites), tell the person they love them, say they are soul mates, they want to marry, that their families are getting ready for their wedding plans, etc. This is either most often lies, made very craftily so that the other person will be gullible enough to believe the one stating the aforementioned sweet talk, or they will make serious plans, at which point, when the victim reaches the goal (going to the other’s country, marrying them, etc.). The result is the predator using the victim for money, sex, and their own egotistical gain. The person is like a drug to them, and like any drug, the drug must be taken away and the predator must be ‘broken’ of their habit before any good can come This relationship can last for many years without proper detection and intervention, and usually unknowingly harmful to the untrained eye as the predator has their plans plotted out with amazing precision and dedication. Sometimes, and often, if desperate enough, the predator will have a few victims with varying degrees of seriousness, and commonly at least one person who they attach themselves to most seriously, especially if the person is easily led to believe they love them. These people become a pawn in a game of emotions, money, sex, and other assorted gains. The predators are looking for easy, negative attention. Basically they want sympathy, sweet talk, and whatever else they can get. This is a mental problem. These people are mentally ill, and they are avoiding their issues, and actually feeding their disease by these actions. Often times they will say they had troubled home life, or a troubled past…whether actually real or fiction…for attention. And when a person reacts the way the predator wants them to, it’s like giving an alcoholic a case of booze and telling them ‘Drink up, I have more for you. ‘ If you truly want to do good for that person, do your best to guide them away from these actions, and find alternative, proper activities for them to feel better from, and people of their own culture who can help them live positively productive lives. encourage them to find volunteer work, or a proper mate near them, teach them about the difference between seeking attention, and guiding and inspiring to help others, as that’s much more fulfilling for ALL than trying to get attention. If done effectively, it does much greater good for them and for others,especially other potential victims who may be terribly hurt when they eventually discover what the predator was truly seeking. (For a humourous take on this - see http://thebots.net/, look under videos, and then ‘The Bots Never Fall in Love’.) Some things to look out for are public displays of affection (internet wise, referring to promises of marriage, calling each other Jaan/Jaanu or other pet names, telling each other they love each other truly, love each other only, are soul mates, etc. especially after not knowing each other very long, and only having the internet and/or phone communication. Usually the people have never physically met, though physical meeting often does not improve the situation, and can make things much worse, and much more dangerous. Also look for pictures of one or both people (especially in their profiles) photo shopped to look like they are together, often in a romantic pose. Look for profile, blog, or other pics, where one or both people are modeling in seductive, suggestive poses, trying to emphasize their busts, rear ends, or anything that may be seducing enough. They will often promise and swear they respect the other person’s religion, often claiming they are going to convert or have converted. In the case of Sikhi, one can easily tell a person is dishonest about their respect for the religion by their use of the above tactics - the flirting, the seductive pictures, often with body parts, little clothing, and/or cleavage showing, as modesty and focusing on the soul over the body are crucial. Similarly, the predator will also claim to respect victim’s culture. Be especially aware of someone who will say the respect and love the culture - when asked, they will use stereotypes learn from their culture (like western stereotypes of India/Desi regions, Asian, and Middle Eastern regions ). Some really tricky types will take extra time to sound more convincing. Sometimes, the predator will say they do good things to make themselves look better. Or they will try to portray themselves in a convincingly attractive manner according to what the victim appreciates - often these are deliberate lies and/or exaggerations. Also, be aware of flirtatious ids/aliases/nicknames with things such as baby girl, sexy, play girl, etc. - name that have a sexually or inappropriately suggestive nature to them should be warnings, though this is not always true, as some people are now choosing more normal ID’s to hide their actions.
People like this are shameful. They are not serious or respectful, and are only trying to achieve personal emotional gain. They cannot be ‘reformed’. This only feeds into their act. They have to be ignored and others made aware of these actions. Make sure that these people do not get the attention they crave. That is the best way to help them, because you teach them that their actions are wrong, and they are more or less forced to change if they want proper respect. Please learn the difference between love and lust - LOVE is shown by first creating a mature bond with foundations from guiding, inspiring, and working to improve another person’s life, without attachment of romantic or sexual feelings. We show we love another more truly when we work to make them better people, then when we sweet talk them and flirt. This, in fact,shows more disrespect, as these actions show seeking only attention and egotistical satisfaction from the person we say we love, and from others around us. this is very false, misleading, and is a form of exploitation. Similarly, Pornography (blue movies, xxx movies, inappropriate pictures of people/animals/people and animals, and or other objects, used for a sexual nature) is lustful exploitation, and by involving yourself with such things, you help to proliferate the lack of morals, lust, and degradation the people who make these horrid acts involve themselves in. These are lives of lust, ego, disease, violence, drug and alcohol abuse, etc. Read this article - http://www.gather.com/viewArticle.jsp articleId=281474977121845. Pornography is also very false in what it represents. It is not intended for information purposes, and involves much false information, fantasy, and things derived only for lust. It does not show how to properly respect another person. Also, it is often abusive, either in the message it portrays, or in the creation of the piece itself. It is created by models and actors who do not love each other. Often times, violence, disease, drug and alcohol abuse, etc. are common, and almost part of the normal environment. Also, the actors/models usually are hiding emotional and or mental problems, and so turn to this as a form of temporary remedy for issues that only grow worse, sometimes leading to murder or suicide. Those who involve themselves in such activities are only promoting these horrid (and in some places, illegal) acts. PLEASE ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT THOUGH SEX IS NECESSARY PART OF LIFE, IT SHOULD NEVER HAVE PRIORITY BEFORE RESPECT FOR THE SOUL, GUIDING,AND INSPIRING, AND DOING ALL YOU CAN TO PROVE THE LIVES OF OTHERS AND VIRTUES OF SOCIETY. For example - Bhagat Puran Singh is a much better person to follow than Brad Pitt, Leonardo Dicaprio, Angelina Jolie, etc. Also, I will agree that one does not need to be Punjabi to be Sikh, nor does one need to be Sikh to be Punjabi…BUT there IS a connection between Sikhi and Punjab, as our faith originated there and that in itself is a reason to appreciate Punjab, whether you are Sikh or not, because many Sikhs are still very good people, and do an awful lot to contribute to the best of society, especially many Punjabi Sikhs, Hindus, Muslims, and other faiths, and just because there are bad people in Punjab does not mean hate the culture. (Equally so, same goes for the Gori culture - it does not mean though Goris are far from perfect to hate them right away, but it does not mean that you turn to them and abandon your own culture and say you hate it because you see faults in it. this is equally as wrong.) If you find fault in your culture…. Work to correct it. It’s a challenge, and one that may seem near impossible, but only because there is not enough effort being put forth to make it possible. Remember that there is no one bad or good culture itself, it’s the stereotypes and lack of values and virtues that people of the culture have decided to follow. There are good and bad in all nations, but increasingly, much more bad than good, and we as collective society worldwide need to stop this and turn it around for the better of us all. If we abandon our culture to seek attention from others, we lose our identity, eventually our culture - Example, if all leave India and marry Goris, there will be no India, and instead a new culture with lack of values. (An additional note - what is written here is general common sense. There are references to Sikh /Sikhi /Sikhs, however this is not limited to Sikhs alone. This work was written by a Sikh so it is an example. It also is not intended to push any one person’s ideas on others, or push any one religion in other’s faces, or to put one religion on a hypothetical pedestal whilst tearing down other faiths. Also, nowhere is any one religion or type of people intentionally being seen as good or bad.) So, to make a point…..if you don’t like how your culture is, don’t make a petty escape from it and say you don’t like it, or worse, attaching yourself to another culture who pretends to appreciate you for attention - work to improve it. Our cultures are important to us as they are our history, our heritages, and much can be learned from them. If we all abandoned our cultures because of things we didn’t like, we’d all be in a right sorry state. Our cultures give us incredible information about many things - who we were, who we are, who we need to be, who we need to NOT be, as well as information on diseases and physical body differences. We need to keep our culture intact, and respect it, because just like us, no culture is fully perfect, but we must work to do the best for our cultures, and never forget who we are, and where we came from. just as we need to improve our faiths, when they have imperfections. Please help your faith and culture by stopping people like this, and get them to realize what they’re doing. PLEASE DO NOT MERELY IGNORE THESE SITUATIONS AND SAY THEY ARE NONE OF MY BUSINESS, I HAVE NO REASON TO DEAL WITH THEM. THEY EFFECT YOUR CULTURE, YOUR RELIGION, AND THOUGH MAYBE NOT YOURSELF DIRECTLY, IT EFFECTS ALL OF US INDIRECTLY, AND COULD EFFECT YOUR FRIENDS OR FAMILY, PERHAPS EVEN YOURSELF IN THE FUTURE. PLEASE LOOK OUT FOR ANOTHER PERSON, AND TRY TO STOP AND PREVENT THESE ACTS SO THAT THE NUMBER OF THEM IS GREATLY REDUCED. IT IS YOUR JOB AS A RESPONSIBLE CITIZEN AND HUMAN BEING. YOU RESPECT YOUR FELLOW PEOPLE, YOUR CULTURE, YOUR RELIGION, THEN IT IS JUST AS MUCH YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AS IT IS THOSE INVOLVED IN THE SITUATION, BECAUSE THEY NEED OUTSIDE GUIDANCE TO CORRECT THEM AND STOP THE SITUATION. IF YOU TAKE THE INITIATIVE, AND WORK TO STOP THESE TERRIBLE THINGS, YOU ARE A VERY GREAT PERSON, AND A ROLE MODEL FOR YOUR COMMUNITY. THANK YOU!
Also, a note for the westerners, be aware that just as I write this about westerners, this can happen with easterners as well, and when you go too far for another culture, you can be left a victim BY other cultures, because they are often are and willing to exploit you back. Read this (PLEASE NOTE THIS IS NOT MEANT TO BE AGAINST MUSLIMS AS I HAVE MANY MUSLIM FRIENDS, IT IS MERELY AN EXAMPLE I FOUND ONLINE, AND CAN HAPPEN WITH ANY RELIGION) -
http://www.renewamerica.us/columns/stock/050513
The following is the story of “Ann,” told in her own words, about life married to a Muslim.
Well, gosh there is so much to say. I guess you could say when I met “Ahmed” he swept me off my feet. I was a single parent going to school full time and working full time. When I met Ahmed he was so charming; so full of promises — which were all lies. After a whirlwind romance, he asked me to marry him and I said yes. We lived in my apartment since he had nothing but an old car and a few personal belongings — and a bunch of promises. Ahmed told me he was not legal before I married him and I agreed to sponsor him so he could get his green card. After we married he went to visit his family in Syria. I was not invited, which hurt me, but there was no reasoning with him. Ahmed was gone for a month but he called once a week and came back with lots of gold jewelry for me. How nice! I remember thinking. I got pregnant two years later and was very ill during the pregnancy. I had to be hospitalized and Ahmed just dumped me off at the hospital and left me there. When I was released, I was told to go on bed rest. Ahmed would not pick me up from the hospital so I got a friend to pick me up and take me home. Ahmed was sitting on the couch and he barked, “I’m hungry! I want food.” I, of course, ignored him and went to lie down. Our son was born and he was very ill because of some type of unidentified genetic disorder. Ahmed named our son “Abu” and I was not given a choice in the matter. Abu was very sick. He spent four months in the Intensive Care Unit and needed a tracheotomy and a feeding tube to live. Abu is now going on eight and lives at home with me. He is on a ventilator and requires nursing and 24 hour supervision. While Ahmed and I were together it was horrible. I was not allowed to work or go to school to finish college. He said I was having affairs with everyone at school and he was very mean with a vile temper. I was the one who had provided insurance for the family. I worked for the government and had great benefits. I took two years leave when Abu was ill and was trying to go back so we could have health insurance. Ahmed was livid when he found out I wanted to go back to work. We had nurses caring for Abu. I explained to him about the insurance and he did not care that we were living in poverty at one of my relative’s homes. Ahmed was never much of a worker. He refused to work for anyone that was not an Arab Muslim. I did not return to my job and I took cobra insurance which was $250 per month. We were living on less than $1,200 per month. I had my daughter from a previous marriage living with us and at night she would sometimes want to sleep with me and Ahmed would say no one sleeps in my bed. “If your daughter sleeps with you, I will divorce you.” he said. Once, I accidentally brushed up against Ahmed during Ramadan and he said I made him dirty because women were unclean. He also told me that his father had told him that women had half a brain and were not to be trusted. This comes from a man that can not read or write. Had I had known all of this about Ahmed I would have never ever gotten involved with him. There were several occasions when he spat in my face and called me filthy names. He would snap his fingers and command tea, “NOW.” He also tried to bilk me out of money to pay off a bad business deal. Ahmed was a faithful Muslim. He was also an abusive husband, a bad father, a liar, and a thief. He was very lazy and was unable to provide the basic support for a family, love, or companionship. That is why I left him. He was sucking the life out of me. I was the walking dead. Often Ahmed would say he was exhausted and would take vacations with his Arab male friends. He went to France, New York, Mexico — all while I stayed home taking care of our son. Like I said, I ended up leaving. I just could not take it. I was living in pure hell. I live with my son and daughter. Ahmed relocated to a town 60 miles away four years ago. He visits his son 5 to 6 hours a week and he says if I contact a lawyer he will return to his country and I will not get a penny. About two years ago he made me an offer. He was going to visit his family and asked if I could watch over his shop and that he would pay me. I decided to do it for
the money. When he got back he did not pay me. He said the income tax that I got was my payment. I also found out he was wife-hunting to boot. After that encounter, I keep as far away from him as possible. He is full of lies — just an evil man. I get very little support from this man. Remember, our son is disabled and on a ventilator at home. Ahmed is now with a new wife he brought back from Syria. While he was engaged to this woman, he took an ad out on the internet for a local wife in case the one from Syria could not get a visa. Ahmed’s new wife is now pregnant again and she has had several miscarriages. Ahmed still does not have insurance nor did he think of all the genetic problems he has in his family. His current wife is like a cat with no claws. She is covered head to toe and is a high school drop out. She will not be able to fight off her evil tormentor as I did and in the end he will suck the life out of her too and there will not be a thing that she can do. Please be aware that there are many women who I have encountered that have suffered because they got involved with a Muslim man. I got out and I want all women to be aware of these horrible; lying; abusive; so-called-god-fearing men. I was little more then gum on the bottom of his shoe and I was college educated and attractive. I never thought this could happen to me. I want my story told so that the truth will be known. Please, if you are involved with one of these guys think twice — don’t waste your time. Just move on.
Barbara J. Stock is an RN of over 23 years and is fairly new to political writing. She has had articles posted on BushCountry, GOPUSA, AmericanDaily, RepublicanDailyNews, Town Hall,
OpinionEditorials, and the Judson Cox Newsletter. She has her own website called Republican and Proud and welcomes comments at dickens502003@yahoo.com. © Copyright 2005 by Barbara J. Stock, http://www.renewamerica.us/columns/stock/050513
I am, however, glad
not ALL are this way. There are a few westerners in my friends lists who are very special people.
Thanks Paola, Kate, Katarina, and Molly for being different! Also, all through history, the westerners were known to go through civilizations, overtake them, and turn them to their culture. From
the ancient Greeks, to Persia, to the Mayas and native Americans in the U S A. Europeans took over
great civilizations and forced their own religions (namely Christianity), their own thinking, their own ideals, their own lack of morals, and these great civilizations not only disappeared, but became as lacking in virtue as those who transformed them. Do you want India to return possession of the west? We fought for independence from the west, only to be handing it back to them. Do you want
to lose your identity, and become another one of the westerner’s conquerings? India was once owned
by Britain, and gained its independence, but it seems India is willing to give itself back to the west, in favour of the false attention the west gives it. This does not mean, however that Desi lok and Goris can’t be friends, or even lovers, but both parties must be incredibly mature and truly not be wishing to have bad alternative
intentions for the other. This is VERY rare.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=europeans+forced+christianity+on&btnG=Google+Search
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=europeans+killed+many+to+force+christianity+on&btnG=Search
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=europeans+took+over+many+civilizations&btnG=Search
(Some links may not be relevant.) Please search similar terms for more information. People don’t
wish to own up to when they do wrong, so they want to cause trouble for those who work to stop this
crap. Something must be done about all these terrible people. We cannot simply let these people do
more bad and turn our backs ignoring them. Working to stop them is part of our lesson as well in life.
It teaches us not to be like them, it teaches us to know how to help others not be like them. If we
act like cowards, we add to the problems because we are too weak to stand up for the morals and
virtues crucial to life.
June 19th, 2009 at 8:26 am
Well, I am a straight up an Indian guy. I though the video was hilarious. To be more realistic the reason that Indian guys don’t date as many women or lets say white women is not because of a lack of assertiveness or low self esteem or due to racial tensions but..
I think it has to do with the pressure of losing… failure is not accepted… You are equivalent to trash if you lose (ability to fulfill your goals)… especially in my family… Everything you do is a test… from the time you are born to until now… You are like “Leonidas” for 300 killing the beast to prove himself… except it doesn’t end with one beast.
And, I think Indian men develop a fear of losing… when asking women out there is a good chance some will say no which is life. I think for some even one “no” would shatter their world… since they focus on perfection. For example: When I was in high school, I only applied for one college b/c that was the one I wanted.
June 19th, 2009 at 6:22 pm
Im an asian guy and i dont give a shit! haha. This video is funny as hell. Are people these days still believing this stereotype. Asian guys cant get white girls? Wow, Its sad how poeple argue and debate about what the media shows u instead of going out there and experiencing it yourself. Expecially if your not asian and you haven’t even met or encountered alot of asians in your life. As an asian american whos grew up here in the US most of my life with people of all ethnicity and backgrounds I see interracial couples all the time. And im fine with that. Alot if not most of my asian guy friends have dated white girls, even black and latino. And some of them are still with them to this day. Some of my asian girl freinds hav dated white girls. But whats weird to me is that i know more asian guys who are with white girls than asian girls with white. hell my best freind is asian and his mom is white. haha. I dont know where u guys live but up here in the North west its not uncommon to see asian guys with non-asian girls.
June 25th, 2009 at 5:08 am
Most asian guys look like little preteen girls.
June 26th, 2009 at 5:33 am
im a typical short nerdy lacking confidence asian man. Im in my 36, i’ve never had any friend let alone a girlfrend. When i walk by some asian men, they always keep looking at me. They know how i feel inside, but when i walk by some white men, they feel bad for me and not look. For example i walk toward a car parked. I know that once i am close to the car it will always leave afterwards. yeah yeah i know that in every race there are good and bad looking men. And being bad lloking and asian deal a double blow to me. But hey there are plus and minus for staying single, ie you have no worries about anythhing, you dont give a crap anymore, other than eat, sleep, wake up, play with yourself, dont even have to work just to maintain the bare necessities(welfare provide that). But there are minus, ie i might turn into a creepy pedophile, but once i try not to think any thing sexual because it might worsen my acne, i still maintain this theory that if i jack off alot or even attemp to do it, ill get these nasty zits that plagued me since forever. What about my physical and mental health, or yeah beeing the nerd i always am, i know its pretty bad the way i live like that so, i tent to exercise and but i always leave behind the mental side that is the social side like in the game the sims. When this side is lacking you know youll get depressed and uhhhh suicidal and stuffs that i, in my pathetic life, might consider once but not anymore (Exercise probably help alot in that department). So now im reading this page i dont event why, oh yeah thats because i came across a funny post on vancouver craiglist that poke fun at asian not getting white chicks and i like to read more and get more laugh LOL
asian man laughing at his pathetic life
June 26th, 2009 at 9:54 am
Who’s the white dude - Owen Wilson wannabe?
June 28th, 2009 at 5:26 am
Getting a White woman is as hard as getting a woman of any other race. You just have to look your best, have some ambition, be financially stable and have a life. Also, it’s a numbers game; the more white woman that tells you “no”, the closer you are to finding a white woman that will tell you “yes daddy”.
June 30th, 2009 at 5:32 pm
This is absolutely silly, Asian guys can date white girls, asian girls and any other race. It is a matter of choice and preference from both sides. However the western mainstream media is a powerful tool that can manipulate and brainwash stupid to mediocre people into believing the negative stereotype of asian men. Therefore, it is vital to save and protect our image by promoting good looking hot asian men into Television, Movies, and especially in the porn industry. The main reason why black guys are so confident, I believe is because they are in every fucking porn site.
We need more hot asian studs in the porn industry and that will inevitably boost the asian male image and that will make them better looking and marketable, when it comes to dating women. Asian Fellas use the POWER OF THE MEDIA!!!
June 30th, 2009 at 5:49 pm
To the asian guys out there who have low self esteem. If you want to be successful in life, dating, sport or whatever. You have to trust in your skills and capabilities and most importantly trust in yourself. That leads to self confidence. To be totally self sufficient and comfortable with yourself, even when others try to put you down will not affect you in any way. Be yourself and honestly express your self, so that others can see your genuine personality( women love that), don’t try to copy people and duplicate it because you will only feel emptyness inside. Dont copy the white man or the black man’s career, attitude, style, have your own unique asian style. Speak and understand your own oriental culture and tap into it!
July 10th, 2009 at 12:56 pm
I finally came to the conclusion why Asian women are stereotyped as submissive, obedient little sex fiends. Because, asian pornstars starring in porn movies in america are actually the ones reinforcing the negative stereotype. They are involved in disgusting demeaning acts like rape and bondage in scenes, they would personally claim that they love white guys and disrespect asian guys. These bitches sell their souls and body to buy their temporarily short term future. That has negatively impacted asian society as a whole, it has caused all sorts negative stereotypes of asian american. Think about it white males in america are the biggest consumers when it comes to porn b/c of the 60-70% of Americans are white. I believe these stupid consumers would be subconciously affected by the amount of content they are exposed to of asian women being portrayed as erotic sex dolls and they may see that as reality.
Asian men need to step up their game, and try their best to get in the porn industry and prove to these white men and black men that they don’t have small dicks and are just as sexually desirable. A big dick doesn’t mean shit, b/c in reality it hurts the girls vagina and may cause it to bleed, its how you use it. Asian cocks are average in size but they have one of the hardest cocks.
We must fight back ,we have stayed silent way too long!!! My advice is Asian women should step out of the porn industry or do scenes with only Asian men.
July 15th, 2009 at 3:06 am
The weirdest thing in the video is that the Indian (does anybody say East Indian anymore?) chap isn’t considered Asian.
Other than that I’d say this video did get a little tedious and seemed like it was trying too hard to be funny.
And you must be kidding if you think you can control the pr0n industry.
August 14th, 2009 at 3:30 am
Excellent video…keep the good work!
August 26th, 2009 at 1:44 pm
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September 1st, 2009 at 5:50 am
Lol! That was hilarious :}
They could have been better actors though.
September 1st, 2009 at 12:02 pm
I think its funny! I don’t find it offensive at all despite being a sub continental girl… because, honestly, I have no problem getting guys, including east asians (like my current boyfriend). Neither do my siblings. We’re all confident and I don’t think its misconstrued as arrogance. People generally like us and we’re considered attractive. Our personalities aren’t conducive to a lot of racism (in fact, I haven’t had a single real incident of explicit racism since I was 5).
Then again I suppose for sub continentals we don’t look particularly ethnic… even my really dark brown little brother doesn’t have particularly “sub continental” characteristics. I have a funny feeling we’re a mixture of all racial clusters if you look down the ancestral line. Having said that I’ve known a couple of ethnic looking girls who get a lot of attention from an array of people.
I’m not saying racism doesn’t exist, but I think I’m really glad to live in a place where it isn’t so prevalent. Ps my asian boyfriend is the hottest guy ever!!
September 2nd, 2009 at 5:08 am
Asian girls know that they can attract potentially pedophile white males with their under-developed bodies. It’s a relationship of power, the power of Asian girls over white guys.
September 14th, 2009 at 5:10 pm
only the ugly loser asian women that’s unwanted by Asian guys goes out with white ugly loser guys. and those ugly loser white guys are unwanted by white women. That’s why white guys need to pass out the green card to get pussies. What a shame!
September 22nd, 2009 at 6:59 pm
I am an Asian guy, 20 years old, a true Vietnamese and never think of dating white ladies.
I don’t know which type of Asian guys you are talking about. If it is an Asian immigrant to United States, it may be different than a native Asian boy. I have spent 17 years in my native country before moving to US and then China to study. While I do not have any disgusts for my race, I have to say White men are, just like White women, very beautiful, very proportional. I have studied the David sculpture and could not resist saying I admire the beautitude that being bestowed on European peoples. Many white men who are my friends are not that ideal as David, but their face features, their noses, eyes, lips and jaws are really aesthetically attractive. Don’t get me wrong that I am gay, it is just my nature to enjoy beautitude.
I have seen many white men being very great in their bodies and their souls. Treating the ones they love with great respect and great share of familial responsibility, they indeed make great impression on me and propel me to improve myself. In Eastern Asia, especially in Vietnam, males are not too attached to family, and usually do not take part in houseworks. This leaves the burden to Asian women who had to sacrifice their whole lives and careers to nurture the children as well as the well-beings of the family. Realising such a feature in a typical Vietnamese family, I have understood why Japanese ladies, and then East Asian ladies enjoy dating white men. Many women in my country, including friends of my mom told me that their white husbands are very gental, tender and responsible.
Here, in Vietnam, many problems with males are: alcoholism, family violence, bad influence on children,… In a middle family, such a problem is not quite common, but because the middle-class in Vietnam did not expand as much the size as in developed country, women fell to be victims of violence and love-cheats. They usually have to play the role of a medieval lady, nursing children and at the same time taking care of their own careers. It is not surprising to see a large portion of ladies run after white men, who, polished by media and Hollywood, suppose to be a better tree for them to lean on. I totally understand these sort of Asian women. I do think that Eastern Asian society must give more social freedom and fairness to women, as they have already endured biological inequalities (bearing children, being more vulnerable to violence due to health,…)
But many Asian gentlemen are very educated just like their White counterparts. They are “nerdy”, have a strong respect for women and are nearly freed of racism. They are indeed very attractive.
Anyhow, I am too young for a complete conclusion. Methinks, people tend to fear dating somewhat outside their cultural spheres. In Asia, it must be about parents’ attitude and such. This, pluses their shyness may be the reason why we see more Asian females with White men than vice versa?
I am a Classicist, a type of guy who enjoy classical values such as bravery, chivalry, humbleness, respectfulness. I am exciting in learning any other cultures along with mine, hopefully someday a White lady may find me suit her
September 29th, 2009 at 10:16 am
To Ann (June 27th, 2008 at 12:03 pm):
Obviously, you’ve done enough to show you are a racist.
Being white does not give us the right to mock the differences of others. It looks like you’ve been dumped by some Asian (Pakistani?Indian?Iraki?Korean?Chinese?Japanese?) before and the bitterness lingered.
Open your little mind a bit more. Attraction does not come just from the outside but what is inside, and from the looks of it, you are rotten… You make us white look bad.
October 4th, 2009 at 6:12 pm
The video was kinda boring. I know it wasnt to be serious but it does show insecurity. I am a Japanese Canadian male born in Vancouver bc Canada. I have only dated white women..lol so what is this, that asian men cant get white women? Most people are so drowned in todays media that it makes their decisions for them, they think what they hear. I dont want to sound too high on myself…. but I am a very goodlooking japanese guy. I am probably the best looking asian guy ever..lol. And I can get any race of girl…. whenever I want. If you are not confident then you sit out… period. The video also proves my point that people think what they hear! The Asian guys are brainwashed by the media themselves…. so they made a insecure asian video. Too funny.
October 6th, 2009 at 12:53 pm
I am a 23 year young Chinese guy. 5.10, 160 lbs, and good looking enginnering student at UCLA. I like European girls particullary Nordic girls. Norway, Swden. I also like Italian girls.
I am a totally Sell OUT who can NEVER go back to Asian any more. Oh, please my Buhhda help me.. I am totally GONE!!!!!!!!!
Dont laugh at me, but it is true. If your mother only date Fat, old, short, or ugly white guy. Her son will turn into me. But that is ok. Once I get my Master degree, I will FUCK wild, I am dead serious. I can imagine myself marrying a Scandanivian girl and have lots of kids. lol
October 19th, 2009 at 2:35 am
Seriously I can get a white girl.
My real problem is how to marry a virgin white girl.
Some white virgin female, please call me.
I mean it.
I gotta go to church to find some virgin white girls.
Bless me
Dexter
October 22nd, 2009 at 9:03 am
this movie is totally fucked up!
October 22nd, 2009 at 6:35 pm
Hi there, im from Australia and im an asian guy (15 years).
WOW!! i did not know how difficult that an asian guy cant pick up chicks in U.S.
Im from Australia and im typical geek (glasses, few pimples, braces) as almost 90% of asians guys in Australia, and hearing you guys saying it is very difficult i just dont buy that at all. I dont believe it because (this might sound fruity but) i was shopping with my mother, and i saw a group of girls 5-7 asian and white sitting around a table in the food court area, i walked pass them and they called out to me to come to them, i was shocked that all of them was interested in me. If my mother wasn’t there i would’ve just gone to the girls and started to chat with them.
But hey, thats whats in australia right now, over populated girls and not enough guys. YES!! for me, so any way don’t sit at home and dream the girls u could’ve dated, you guys can do it, JUST BE CONFIDENT!!!! lol.
October 27th, 2009 at 2:31 pm
im vietnamese. 24yo. 5′9 dark 140lbs. ive only dated vietnamese girls .vietnamese are the only ones i prefer. theyre beautiful in everyway. all my nonasian friends would love an asian girl. I dont see whats going on here. you guys need to come down new orleans where we have some pure bred countryass asian girls. Where asian girls are busty like white girls. white girls are sexy as hell but when it comes down to it i will only date a vietnamese girl. only time i prefer white girls is when im watching porn and fapping off to them. Only because their arent any good americanize asians on there. only the bushy anime type asians. So white girls win by default in the porn area. lol
October 27th, 2009 at 11:22 pm
Hi, I am asian too, I’m a Filipino. I read all these comments first before I watched the video. I nearly got carried away by the hatred of some other comments. Personally, I don’t find this offensive. I think it is meant to be comic, nothing serious. Maybe some people got offended before “race” is a very sensitive issue. But I did find it funny especially the Indian guy…
October 29th, 2009 at 4:16 am
what to say…I m white, and I think asian boys are the best!!!!!
November 19th, 2009 at 7:00 am
It could just be the culture of where you particularly live. I’ve lived in NYC for centuries. Everywhere I look White Girls are treated like GODS by the magazine industry, media, and employment sector. That’s probably why A lot of people, not just asians, want to intermix and date white girls (Blacks, Latinos, and whites).
If you really want white girls you must find a way to be financially wealthy. Somehow, some shape somewhere you must be making money and be powerful.